I’ve always swallowed… Never understood why it was such a big deal. It’s neater, cleaner, and you don’t have to interrupt an intimate moment by getting tissues or having to spit it out. Also, if you go down on him and he doesn’t return the favor then fuck him. Also same goes if he doesn’t kiss you after. But that being said, if he goes down on you, you also can’t shy away from a kiss.
If you fake it for a one night stand because you just want it to be over, I can understand that. But if you’re faking it with someone you’re sleeping with regularly, you’re only boosting his ego and hurting yourself. I don’t get it. You deserve an orgasm. Don’t be afraid to help the guy out. Communicate. He’ll probably appreciate it. If he doesn’t, put your pants back on and find someone else.
How much did it cost you? I called the local hair salon most of my friends go to and they said $60 for each “sandwich” and they typically do around 17-18… That seems insanely pricey
I love this! My mom always told me, she’s my mom, not my friend. Teenagers need parenting. They need someone who says no. I did not get along with my mom when I was younger, mostly because I was a brat. I didn’t really see why she chose to be the parent she is until I finished my sophomore year of college. Now I’m 22 and we are incredibly close, but regardless, she is still my mom, not my friend. And I’m significantly more independent and self sufficient than most of my friends because of that. I’m incredibly thankful she forced us to have strong boundaries, even though in high school I hated her for it.
I don’t necessarily think deleting people off social media is crazy, sometimes you just need space without them popping into your day unannounced. But burning/damaging things… I can see how it would feel good in the moment but they’re something manipulative and amazing (and maybe this is my crazy showing) about keeping your composure, or at least seeming like you are, after a breakup. When a guy thinks losing him has had little to no affect on you… You win. By a landslide. And he ends up being the one looking like an idiot.
If there is anything I have learned, every organization you’re a part of things it is number one. Sorority, student government association, the honors program, your major, your job… They all think that you should be 100% devoted to them. I love my sorority, and all of the various things I am involved in, but I came to college to be a trained, educated professional. That is my top priority. I have held exec positions in my own chapter and yet I’ve had to fight with them because there have been times I’ve had to put my education or the beginnings of my career first. Greek life is supposed to be about making you the best woman you can be, and what you give back to them. It’s a delicate balance. I’ve maintained positive relationships and am still active in my sorority, but at the end of the day, sorority is not why I pay thousands of dollars a year. It is for my career. I won’t and you shouldn’t jeopardize your career because some people are butthurt. Honestly, they’re probably jealous.
I think some of my friends really did love their freshmen year. I didn’t, I couldn’t understand why everyone loved college so much. I hated it. But then over spring break I said “fuck it” and transferred far away from home, to a cool new city, and after that I never looked back. This was a good article. I felt many of the same feelings.
I don’t know why people act like this is such a big deal. If you want him to go down on you, you can’t ask like going down on him is the end of the world. I’ve always swallowed and always kissed after and have never once had a guy make a face, complain, or anything.
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I’m surprised you say that going through recruitment as a sophomore is judged so harshly. At my school no one could care less.
I’m sorry but after Rob gained all that weight I just can’t look at him the same. I know it’s shallow, but I just can’t…
But if you’re logged out of linked in does he know? Serious question
I’ve always swallowed… Never understood why it was such a big deal. It’s neater, cleaner, and you don’t have to interrupt an intimate moment by getting tissues or having to spit it out. Also, if you go down on him and he doesn’t return the favor then fuck him. Also same goes if he doesn’t kiss you after. But that being said, if he goes down on you, you also can’t shy away from a kiss.
If you fake it for a one night stand because you just want it to be over, I can understand that. But if you’re faking it with someone you’re sleeping with regularly, you’re only boosting his ego and hurting yourself. I don’t get it. You deserve an orgasm. Don’t be afraid to help the guy out. Communicate. He’ll probably appreciate it. If he doesn’t, put your pants back on and find someone else.
If you’re dating a guy who’s not a fuckboy, the “define the relationship” talk shouldn’t be a big deal. It’s part of *being in a relationship*
How much did it cost you? I called the local hair salon most of my friends go to and they said $60 for each “sandwich” and they typically do around 17-18… That seems insanely pricey
I love this! My mom always told me, she’s my mom, not my friend. Teenagers need parenting. They need someone who says no. I did not get along with my mom when I was younger, mostly because I was a brat. I didn’t really see why she chose to be the parent she is until I finished my sophomore year of college. Now I’m 22 and we are incredibly close, but regardless, she is still my mom, not my friend. And I’m significantly more independent and self sufficient than most of my friends because of that. I’m incredibly thankful she forced us to have strong boundaries, even though in high school I hated her for it.
Women who say they don’t masturbate are either lying, or don’t know how to get themselves off.
Why is dog face not on this… Seriously.
I don’t necessarily think deleting people off social media is crazy, sometimes you just need space without them popping into your day unannounced. But burning/damaging things… I can see how it would feel good in the moment but they’re something manipulative and amazing (and maybe this is my crazy showing) about keeping your composure, or at least seeming like you are, after a breakup. When a guy thinks losing him has had little to no affect on you… You win. By a landslide. And he ends up being the one looking like an idiot.
I’ve never heard of this… I must be getting old
If there is anything I have learned, every organization you’re a part of things it is number one. Sorority, student government association, the honors program, your major, your job… They all think that you should be 100% devoted to them. I love my sorority, and all of the various things I am involved in, but I came to college to be a trained, educated professional. That is my top priority. I have held exec positions in my own chapter and yet I’ve had to fight with them because there have been times I’ve had to put my education or the beginnings of my career first. Greek life is supposed to be about making you the best woman you can be, and what you give back to them. It’s a delicate balance. I’ve maintained positive relationships and am still active in my sorority, but at the end of the day, sorority is not why I pay thousands of dollars a year. It is for my career. I won’t and you shouldn’t jeopardize your career because some people are butthurt. Honestly, they’re probably jealous.
I think some of my friends really did love their freshmen year. I didn’t, I couldn’t understand why everyone loved college so much. I hated it. But then over spring break I said “fuck it” and transferred far away from home, to a cool new city, and after that I never looked back. This was a good article. I felt many of the same feelings.
I don’t know why people act like this is such a big deal. If you want him to go down on you, you can’t ask like going down on him is the end of the world. I’ve always swallowed and always kissed after and have never once had a guy make a face, complain, or anything.
You use a fresh tampon that hasn’t been opened yet
I’m confused, wouldn’t
I think the sequel will be great either way. There’s a definite empowerment theme that Frozen has and as long as that is continued, I’m happy.
Great article!!!