Well ladies, thank you all so much for your great advice! I had to make a decision, seeing as how I am getting married in October! I figured the least i could do for you lovely women would be to post links to all of my decisions! I went with everything Priscilla of Boston. I went to the Atlanta, GA salon and it all simply clicked! Here are the links!
Dear Piker, the intelligent, classy, mature girls you speak of also dream of the day they can either not work at all or work part-time after a decade or so. It’s great that you respect them so, but understand that’s exactly what they want. They want you to be under the impression they’re not dumb. They aren’t. But they also aren’t 100% career committed; they’re interested in having kids and not working full time. But that doesn’t make a great website, now does it?
Roses and Pearls, pregnancy is not always preventable. Nothing but abstinence is 100%. People on the pill get pregnant. If you think you’re the exception and it could never ever happen to you, I hope you’re right since you agree that it would seem like the end of the world. And I never said it wasn’t classy to have sex. I had sex last night. I think it’s not classy to do it before marriage.
Well I just would’ve never taken the chance. To me, it would’ve been the end of the world to get pregnant should something have happened. To others, y’all may have been ok with that. You were willing to take the chance. I just think you can date someone for years and think you’re going to get married then breakup. I wanted to be able to say I’d only slept with one man ever.
And even though I’m arguing with a teenager here (who for some reason thinks I have 19 kids), Daisy, here’s a guy’s point of view. http://bit.ly/iPVtsC Which are you going to be?
To continue my reasoning from before, I’ll add one more reason to wait: based on this comment you’re clearly not old enough to make a decision about sex. Please wait longer than syllabus week.
Not to be snobby, but I waited until marriage. Much smarter than waiting until college. Not once did any of my friends say they were glad they had sex…with any guy… ever. Just wait sweetie.
Guys aren’t interested in you after sex. If you don’t have sex with them, you’re still giving them a reason to be interested.
Even if you don’t have a lot of money, every sorority lady should be able to accumulate some function shirts, plastic sunglasses and Norts. You should invest in pearls, a Vera Bradley tote and rainbows to carry you through your time in college. Get at least one function dress and trade/borrow with your sisters if you can’t afford a lot of dresses. And on your Christmas/birthday list, put oversized Longchamp bag, Vineyard Vines tote (they make sorority prints), Jack Rogers sandals, Yurman ring, and anything from Lilly Pulitzer (preferably your sorority print or color)!
The Jack Rogers sandals may be a regional thing. They look like mom shoes to me, and I never see young girls wearing them. Agree with everything else though!
You’ve obviously never visited. Not traveling and not understanding Greek life…whatever. I’m done taking to you. In real life this is the part of the conversation where I’d walk away and you’d jack off to that view later that night.
I’d like to think she just earned a few shack shirts before becoming Mrs. Miller.
I love that you chose short BM dresses. I did too, and I think they’re much cuter.
Dear Piker, the intelligent, classy, mature girls you speak of also dream of the day they can either not work at all or work part-time after a decade or so. It’s great that you respect them so, but understand that’s exactly what they want. They want you to be under the impression they’re not dumb. They aren’t. But they also aren’t 100% career committed; they’re interested in having kids and not working full time. But that doesn’t make a great website, now does it?
No, I’m going to agree with GKL. My dog is the same way.
Roses and Pearls, pregnancy is not always preventable. Nothing but abstinence is 100%. People on the pill get pregnant. If you think you’re the exception and it could never ever happen to you, I hope you’re right since you agree that it would seem like the end of the world. And I never said it wasn’t classy to have sex. I had sex last night. I think it’s not classy to do it before marriage.
And it’s not just about not getting pregnant. It’s about staying classy.
RosesAndPearls, it does mention willingness… after years of dating/marriage. What’s your point?
Well I just would’ve never taken the chance. To me, it would’ve been the end of the world to get pregnant should something have happened. To others, y’all may have been ok with that. You were willing to take the chance. I just think you can date someone for years and think you’re going to get married then breakup. I wanted to be able to say I’d only slept with one man ever.
Cutie Pi, I wasn’t that young.
Pearls and Class, if you’ve been dating 6 years you sure deserve. Don’t wait any longer or you’ll have to show him what he’d be missing.
Thanks for defending me SoFly.
And even though I’m arguing with a teenager here (who for some reason thinks I have 19 kids), Daisy, here’s a guy’s point of view. http://bit.ly/iPVtsC Which are you going to be?
To continue my reasoning from before, I’ll add one more reason to wait: based on this comment you’re clearly not old enough to make a decision about sex. Please wait longer than syllabus week.
But would you really recommend someone to start having sex in college? What good comes of it?
Not to be snobby, but I waited until marriage. Much smarter than waiting until college. Not once did any of my friends say they were glad they had sex…with any guy… ever. Just wait sweetie.
Guys aren’t interested in you after sex. If you don’t have sex with them, you’re still giving them a reason to be interested.
Also it’s wrong.
And you will get pregnant. And die.
The Jack Rogers sandals may be a regional thing. They look like mom shoes to me, and I never see young girls wearing them. Agree with everything else though!
And a wedding band?
I do have to give this poor girl credit for knowing there’re no touchdowns in baseball & creating the post.
You’ve obviously never visited. Not traveling and not understanding Greek life…whatever. I’m done taking to you. In real life this is the part of the conversation where I’d walk away and you’d jack off to that view later that night.
Skip the colored sash though. Those pictures won’t look so cute in 10 years. Nautical is classic but colored sashes are a trend
I am! But I’m the bride.