I like girls a lot. Just as much as I like guys, in fact, to provide clarity for all those raised eyebrows out there. So I consider myself at least a first-degree expert in girl-on-girl experiences. Whether it’s a casual make out at a party, or actually getting naked with a girl sober in a bed, I’ve been there. I’m the first to say that if you know a chick is into girls, it’s not cool to hook up with her just for the story if you think she actually has serious feelings for you. That being said, I have no issue whatsoever with girls getting drunk and making out at parties regardless of where you swing on the sexual scale. Hell, that was my life in high school and then college with my very straight best friend, and it worked out great.
My straight best friend and I kissed each other at parties kind of a lot. It turned guys on for both of us, and on top of that, it lets everyone at the party knew what I was up for without me having to explain anything. I was lucky enough to have a best friend who was always on the same page as me about it. It was super fun and very casual. Because we were on the same page, no one got their feelings hurt. I would not recommend doing this with someone who will make it weird. It will just suck the fun right out of your friendship. In this case, people got so used to seeing us lock lips that it became weird not to see me making out with her or another girl at a party at least once throughout the night. Hey, I’m a crowd pleaser, what can I say?
It’s hard to explain what makes it clear that a girl is looking to get dirty with another girl at a party. There’s typically just something in the eyes that always speaks to me and lets me know she’s down, but I have no clue how it works for everyone else. I mean, I’m a girl, so I know how girls flirt. It’s just not that hard to figure out.
In any case, if you’re a girl and you ever have the opportunity to make out with a girl at a party just for shits and gigs, you should definitely do it. Seriously. Seize the opportunity. There are few things more fun than doing something a little outside your comfort zone, something a little dirty and a little wrong, especially when it means the whole party will be watching you. Obviously, pick a girl who is up for it too, and don’t just start randomly trying to swap saliva with every chick at the party like a desperate frat boy. But, if and when you find someone who would be into it and seems like the match you’re looking for, I say go for it. At the very least, guys love it, and if that’s as far as it goes that’s completely fine. If it means letting her pull you into a bedroom later, that’s fine too, as long as both of you are on the same page.
Girls are fun to make out with. They’re not like guys. They smell better when sweaty, for one, and if they’re so drunk they fall over mid-make out, they’re less likely to totally crush you. So next time you’re four shots in and looking to be the life of the party and the girl everyone is talking about, go ahead. Two girls making out in front of everyone is the hallmark of a good party. Be a part of the beautiful tradition..