Way to jump to conclusions there. Look, I’ve gotten to know my boyfriend’s friends, guys and girls alike. While I only occasionally hang out with them, I am close to his best girl friend… we are like sisters now. And that wouldn’t have happened if either of us acted like bitches expecting one to make the first move in getting to know the other… and when nothing happens, ultimately blame it on the other person and dislike them.
In other case since most people seem to disagree with me, read imnotanexplorer0001’s comment.
It seems the only problems you have with her is that she wanted to meet up at places you find to be inconvenient and isn’t your scene. And that she didn’t make you feel “remotely special” (although it really baffles me why you think she would need to put you on a pedestal, just because she’s seeing your best friend). The points you make about her doesn’t entirely scream “Bitch” to me; you should realize that people ARE different after all. If she really is in any way being problematic, your best friend being her boyfriend probably would have talked to her about it. Something that you should have done as well, instead of ranting on the internet illogically, solving nothing and making yourself look overly-possessive in this situation.
You claim that she doesn’t try to get to know you. Do you yourself make any attempts whatsoever to get to know her? You don’t seem like you even give the her any benefit of the doubt — you look down on her so much, you expect her to still have to get past YOU when she already IS his girl!
And if you are being “shunned” as you say, then your friend is to be blamed, not the girlfriend. She doesn’t need to share her BOYFRIEND with you!
Way to jump to conclusions there. Look, I’ve gotten to know my boyfriend’s friends, guys and girls alike. While I only occasionally hang out with them, I am close to his best girl friend… we are like sisters now. And that wouldn’t have happened if either of us acted like bitches expecting one to make the first move in getting to know the other… and when nothing happens, ultimately blame it on the other person and dislike them.
In other case since most people seem to disagree with me, read imnotanexplorer0001’s comment.
It seems the only problems you have with her is that she wanted to meet up at places you find to be inconvenient and isn’t your scene. And that she didn’t make you feel “remotely special” (although it really baffles me why you think she would need to put you on a pedestal, just because she’s seeing your best friend). The points you make about her doesn’t entirely scream “Bitch” to me; you should realize that people ARE different after all. If she really is in any way being problematic, your best friend being her boyfriend probably would have talked to her about it. Something that you should have done as well, instead of ranting on the internet illogically, solving nothing and making yourself look overly-possessive in this situation.
You claim that she doesn’t try to get to know you. Do you yourself make any attempts whatsoever to get to know her? You don’t seem like you even give the her any benefit of the doubt — you look down on her so much, you expect her to still have to get past YOU when she already IS his girl!
And if you are being “shunned” as you say, then your friend is to be blamed, not the girlfriend. She doesn’t need to share her BOYFRIEND with you!