brandonchapman (PNM)

Member Since 10/24/2012

From Texas

  • brandonchapman 12 years ago on Rules of Attraction: Hook Up, Date Down

    This post is idiotic. You say guys are shallow and women are vain, but how the hell is vanity not shallowness? It makes no damned sense.

    What you’re doing is generalizing based on social stereotypes of each sex. People may buy into it, but I don’t. When I look for a woman, I’m looking for someone who is of a similar fitness, but this whole up and down thing seems like garbage. If a woman is that insecure based on what people will say about her dating me, I’m not interested. At all.

    I prefer women who don’t wear makeup and are self confident in their ability to be with me. I’m not a 10. Probably about an 8-9. I would date a 6-9, but would likely not care to try with most of what society deems to be “perfection”. I abhor the super model look. Not interested in someone who is anorexic, bulimic, or incredibly narcissistic. No, they won’t all be like that, but careful observation over the years seems to indicate this is a fair generalization.

    My priorities for finding a fit mate boil down to being intelligent, conscientious and wise, with a streak of “crazy” :

    I’m after someone who is globally aware, health conscious, autodidactic, passionate, creative, and enjoys novelty.

    That’s about 80% of what I’m after.

    The remaining 20% comes down to looks, of which they can be less attractive than I.

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