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I joined a sorority in the fall and was so happy, I felt like I was home and that I had a place to be; until I got my big. My big & grand big are the main reason I had such a hard time. I have many family problems and have to work full time as well as going to school, so it was hard and I missed a few things. My big took this hard and told me how shitty of a little I was and that I needed to get my act together. Okay, cool. When I started to cry? She kept going. I looked up to her and she just tore me down. I’m also engaged and she told me I couldn’t spend too much time with my fiance. Ok, no….
Over winter break I did some hard thinking and decided I was going to disaffiliate (due to other reasons too, like finances, etc.) but she was over seas for Christmas so I had no way of getting in contact with her. (we weren’t that close, either)
So – I was going to meet with her after I got out of work and she ended up finding out before I got a chance to tell her and I got a long text from her telling me, furthermore, to have a nice life and that I disrespected her and blah blah blah, and she couldn’t give me the time of day to even explain myself.
Now – I get dirty looks from the whole chapter basically, as no one but the eboard has seen my side.
I created an account just to comment..
I joined a sorority in the fall and was so happy, I felt like I was home and that I had a place to be; until I got my big. My big & grand big are the main reason I had such a hard time. I have many family problems and have to work full time as well as going to school, so it was hard and I missed a few things. My big took this hard and told me how shitty of a little I was and that I needed to get my act together. Okay, cool. When I started to cry? She kept going. I looked up to her and she just tore me down. I’m also engaged and she told me I couldn’t spend too much time with my fiance. Ok, no….
Over winter break I did some hard thinking and decided I was going to disaffiliate (due to other reasons too, like finances, etc.) but she was over seas for Christmas so I had no way of getting in contact with her. (we weren’t that close, either)
So – I was going to meet with her after I got out of work and she ended up finding out before I got a chance to tell her and I got a long text from her telling me, furthermore, to have a nice life and that I disrespected her and blah blah blah, and she couldn’t give me the time of day to even explain myself.
Now – I get dirty looks from the whole chapter basically, as no one but the eboard has seen my side.
ITS SO GREAT.