Wow. You’re doing it wrong. Everything you complained about is just a result of you being unprepared or just… not smart.
As for the sexist bit, my last girlfriend introduced me to anal. my roommates last partner introduced him to anal. All of the guys I can think of immediately were asked by their girl to try butt stuff, not the other way around .
PS I hope you die and your future husband turns gay and cheats on you with the dude you dumped just for taking your ass virginity
Wow. You’re doing it wrong. Everything you complained about is just a result of you being unprepared or just… not smart.
As for the sexist bit, my last girlfriend introduced me to anal. my roommates last partner introduced him to anal. All of the guys I can think of immediately were asked by their girl to try butt stuff, not the other way around .