It is beautiful but overkill. I bet they are divorced in less than a year unless they are royalty or have some sort of marital contract. What a waste of money when people are starving in your country. I find this both unnecessary and ridiculous. With that kind of money, I could live happily ever after with my hubby in a castle forever because I would invest that money and make it grow instead of blowing it on something so frivolous.
No wonder you are losing friends. No one wants to hang out with someone who has this low of self esteem. Does that sound mean to say? Too bad, it’s true. You wait for this loser to call you and break your heart, you know he won’t disappoint you in that department. He has given you more than one sign that he doesn’t care, that the relationship is over. He found something else “better to do.” Fuck him. Get a hobby if you can’t do anything but cry. Seriously? You have your whole world wrapped up in looser boy this much that it paralyzes you. Wow. Just wow. We have all had bad relationships, don’t get me wrong. I was even married to one guy who would do things without me all the time, never invite me and so on so I went out and found my own interests, hobbies and then kicked him out of my life and to the curb. My only regret was ever being dumb enough to marry him. Leopards don’t change their spots. Don’t you have something better to do? Like working part time on the weekends? I would never ever call him again. He might actually wonder why you aren’t calling and call you back. Or he might just say, “hey she FINALLY got the message” to his new girl friend that he is most likely cheating on you with but doesn’t have the balls to be a real man and actually break up with you to your face. Calling him and breaking up? NO!! NEVER!! NOT IN A MILLION YEARS!!! Texting him a breakup is too good for him too. Just NEVER CALL HIS SORRY ASS EVER AGAIN. LOSE HIS NUMBER!!! PERMANENTLY.!!! I would take anything he has given you and mail it back to him with a dear John letter. Tell him you never want to see him again and mean it. If you are feeling vengeful (guys think that this is psychotic behavior but to be honest, it really is a total breakup-feel good or better about yourself healer) burn any photo you have of him or of him and you together. Just burn it. It is a finalization of a process. You see the relationship in your head going up in flames, why not make the mental connection and just burn his photos, stuffed animals, and so on. Jewelry (if he ever actually cared at all), you pawn if. Take the money and do something nice for yourself like a day spa. Just get him totally out of your life. What I can guarantee is that he will pursuit you if he really does care. Why don’t you just find a decent male friend to hang out with who does actually care about you and want to hang out with you. Men who want to be your friend (who are not gay) are usually interested in some point at being more than friends. From my personal experience, the very best relationship I have ever had in my life is the one I have with my current husband who I took the time to become best friends with. I don’t want to do anything with anyone else and I don’t need to do anything with anyone else. We took the time to actually get to know each other. We lived in different states and met in a video game (good hobby you should try to get this idiot loser out of your life) and started to talk a lot on the game and then in SKYPE and then after 6 months or so, we couldn’t take it and had to meet in person. We both knew what the other looked like and when we met the only expectation I had was just being happy to meet him in real life. He decided the week I stayed in his town (we decided it was safer if I decided to bolt I had my own car and I could leave anytime I felt uncomfortable), that he couldn’t live without me in his life full time. So, we took a HUGE chance and he moved in with me. We have been together now 5 years and married for 2. We have gone thought a lot together, including financial hardship, but it has brought us closer together because we are a team. Maybe that comes from playing video games, but at any rate, we love each other and want to be together for life through thick and thin. That’s not to say we don’t fight, because everyone does unless they just don’t talk to each other at all, we just really like each other and love each other very much. So dump loser boy and find a real man, one who will treat you with respect and like a lady. Your statement above about how you love him just reinforces what my hubby says that, “women love assholes” and guys who treat them “like shit.” He has no idea why any normal woman would want to be treated like a doormat and neither do I since I have been with him. He even made me chocolate truffles on my birthday from SCRATCH. This guy loves the living crap out of me. Find a good one and treat him as good as he treats you. Trust me, you won’t be disappointed (and if you are, go to a shrink because there is something mentally damaged about you.).
It is beautiful but overkill. I bet they are divorced in less than a year unless they are royalty or have some sort of marital contract. What a waste of money when people are starving in your country. I find this both unnecessary and ridiculous. With that kind of money, I could live happily ever after with my hubby in a castle forever because I would invest that money and make it grow instead of blowing it on something so frivolous.
No wonder you are losing friends. No one wants to hang out with someone who has this low of self esteem. Does that sound mean to say? Too bad, it’s true. You wait for this loser to call you and break your heart, you know he won’t disappoint you in that department. He has given you more than one sign that he doesn’t care, that the relationship is over. He found something else “better to do.” Fuck him. Get a hobby if you can’t do anything but cry. Seriously? You have your whole world wrapped up in looser boy this much that it paralyzes you. Wow. Just wow. We have all had bad relationships, don’t get me wrong. I was even married to one guy who would do things without me all the time, never invite me and so on so I went out and found my own interests, hobbies and then kicked him out of my life and to the curb. My only regret was ever being dumb enough to marry him. Leopards don’t change their spots. Don’t you have something better to do? Like working part time on the weekends? I would never ever call him again. He might actually wonder why you aren’t calling and call you back. Or he might just say, “hey she FINALLY got the message” to his new girl friend that he is most likely cheating on you with but doesn’t have the balls to be a real man and actually break up with you to your face. Calling him and breaking up? NO!! NEVER!! NOT IN A MILLION YEARS!!! Texting him a breakup is too good for him too. Just NEVER CALL HIS SORRY ASS EVER AGAIN. LOSE HIS NUMBER!!! PERMANENTLY.!!! I would take anything he has given you and mail it back to him with a dear John letter. Tell him you never want to see him again and mean it. If you are feeling vengeful (guys think that this is psychotic behavior but to be honest, it really is a total breakup-feel good or better about yourself healer) burn any photo you have of him or of him and you together. Just burn it. It is a finalization of a process. You see the relationship in your head going up in flames, why not make the mental connection and just burn his photos, stuffed animals, and so on. Jewelry (if he ever actually cared at all), you pawn if. Take the money and do something nice for yourself like a day spa. Just get him totally out of your life. What I can guarantee is that he will pursuit you if he really does care. Why don’t you just find a decent male friend to hang out with who does actually care about you and want to hang out with you. Men who want to be your friend (who are not gay) are usually interested in some point at being more than friends. From my personal experience, the very best relationship I have ever had in my life is the one I have with my current husband who I took the time to become best friends with. I don’t want to do anything with anyone else and I don’t need to do anything with anyone else. We took the time to actually get to know each other. We lived in different states and met in a video game (good hobby you should try to get this idiot loser out of your life) and started to talk a lot on the game and then in SKYPE and then after 6 months or so, we couldn’t take it and had to meet in person. We both knew what the other looked like and when we met the only expectation I had was just being happy to meet him in real life. He decided the week I stayed in his town (we decided it was safer if I decided to bolt I had my own car and I could leave anytime I felt uncomfortable), that he couldn’t live without me in his life full time. So, we took a HUGE chance and he moved in with me. We have been together now 5 years and married for 2. We have gone thought a lot together, including financial hardship, but it has brought us closer together because we are a team. Maybe that comes from playing video games, but at any rate, we love each other and want to be together for life through thick and thin. That’s not to say we don’t fight, because everyone does unless they just don’t talk to each other at all, we just really like each other and love each other very much. So dump loser boy and find a real man, one who will treat you with respect and like a lady. Your statement above about how you love him just reinforces what my hubby says that, “women love assholes” and guys who treat them “like shit.” He has no idea why any normal woman would want to be treated like a doormat and neither do I since I have been with him. He even made me chocolate truffles on my birthday from SCRATCH. This guy loves the living crap out of me. Find a good one and treat him as good as he treats you. Trust me, you won’t be disappointed (and if you are, go to a shrink because there is something mentally damaged about you.).