The closest Kendra ever went to going Greek was always hitting up Pita Pit on her way home from the bars. But she thanks the sisterhood of DG for always letting her crash taco night and helping her find her way out of that frat party where a guy got stabbed with a samurai sword. Contact her at kendrasyrdal.com for sex toy suggestions and general sass.
I rarely feel the need to defend myself with comments but after taking a few days, coming back, and re-reading this I’m still annoyed and feel the need to address you head on, DL_1888.
I think you have completely (whether intentionally so or not) missed the point of why I wrote a love-manifesto to the gay man I consider to be my other half. Are you right that him being a part of the LGBT+ community is not the most important part of him? Sure. Are you right that I treat him as an accessory? Not unless he’s holding my purse while I pee or helping me zip up my romper after the fact. (Kidding.) But the fact is, being gay IS a part of him and arguably, a defining one. And it’s a part of him he is proud of and I am as well so yes, I mention it from time to time when talking about him to stranger, which you are.
As to why I categorized my friends it’s:
A) Human nature because we get different things from each and every one of our friends and if you can’t recognize that you’re naive.
AND
B) It’s a way to format the piece from purely a logistical standpoint.
Sorry I seemed to strike a nerve with your “biggest pet peeve” but you struck a nerve with one of mine. And that’s people who can take even the lightest, obviously intended to be positive, happy, and love filled pieces, and twist them into something negative.
If this is how you spend your time online and (dear god I hope not) in person, there’s something wrong.
I rarely feel the need to defend myself with comments but after taking a few days, coming back, and re-reading this I’m still annoyed and feel the need to address you head on, DL_1888.
I think you have completely (whether intentionally so or not) missed the point of why I wrote a love-manifesto to the gay man I consider to be my other half. Are you right that him being a part of the LGBT+ community is not the most important part of him? Sure. Are you right that I treat him as an accessory? Not unless he’s holding my purse while I pee or helping me zip up my romper after the fact. (Kidding.) But the fact is, being gay IS a part of him and arguably, a defining one. And it’s a part of him he is proud of and I am as well so yes, I mention it from time to time when talking about him to stranger, which you are.
As to why I categorized my friends it’s:
A) Human nature because we get different things from each and every one of our friends and if you can’t recognize that you’re naive.
AND
B) It’s a way to format the piece from purely a logistical standpoint.
Sorry I seemed to strike a nerve with your “biggest pet peeve” but you struck a nerve with one of mine. And that’s people who can take even the lightest, obviously intended to be positive, happy, and love filled pieces, and twist them into something negative.
If this is how you spend your time online and (dear god I hope not) in person, there’s something wrong.
Have a good day.
Tbqh I don’t know what a GDI is either.
Not gonna lie to you, Deb… I don’t care what he thinks I just want him to leave.