Believe it or not I did keep my options open, not caring or even seeing much of a difference between the “top tier” and “middle tiers”. And I did continue with the recruitment process until the end, even after getting dropped by the ones I liked. But it came to a point where the few sororities I had left were ones where I did not feel I fit in at all and I didn’t think it was worth the time or money to be in a sorority just for the sake of being in one if I was not connecting with the girls. It was my decision to drop at the end and I’m not asking for anyone’s sympathy, the point of the article is that there are more important things in life than “being popular” and partying, and learning to adjust to unexpected changes.
Believe it or not I did keep my options open, not caring or even seeing much of a difference between the “top tier” and “middle tiers”. And I did continue with the recruitment process until the end, even after getting dropped by the ones I liked. But it came to a point where the few sororities I had left were ones where I did not feel I fit in at all and I didn’t think it was worth the time or money to be in a sorority just for the sake of being in one if I was not connecting with the girls. It was my decision to drop at the end and I’m not asking for anyone’s sympathy, the point of the article is that there are more important things in life than “being popular” and partying, and learning to adjust to unexpected changes.