I absolutely love this! My second year in my sorority it was getting to be too much money for me and I thought I was going to have to disaffiliate, but we figured out a plan and I was extremely happy. I loved my sorority. I did end up having to disaffiliate later on anyway, because the sorority failed to protect me in a situation that could have been prevented. I refused to let a sister drive drunk after a party and it ended up making her so mad that she wanted to fight. She ended up trying to push me down a flight of cement stairs and I defended myself so she got her fight. I ended up finding out that she had actually had a weapon that she told people she was going to use to kill me. They just took the weapon away but let her still walk around, to where she found me and still ended up trying to hurt me. I asked why they didn’t do something else about it and their reasoning was because they didn’t want any bad publicity for the sorority. I know we didn’t need it but at the same time if you have someone with a weapon saying they are going to kill someone, you kinda need to do something about it. So to me I felt that their reputation was more important than my safety and ended up making the tough decision to disaffiliate. I knew some of them weren’t going to talk to me afterwards, but my closest friends in the sorority did too. And unfortunately for me I still lived in their area so I got dirty looks all the time and just never wanted to leave because I didn’t want to deal with how they treated me. The whole thing broke my heart.
I absolutely love this! My second year in my sorority it was getting to be too much money for me and I thought I was going to have to disaffiliate, but we figured out a plan and I was extremely happy. I loved my sorority. I did end up having to disaffiliate later on anyway, because the sorority failed to protect me in a situation that could have been prevented. I refused to let a sister drive drunk after a party and it ended up making her so mad that she wanted to fight. She ended up trying to push me down a flight of cement stairs and I defended myself so she got her fight. I ended up finding out that she had actually had a weapon that she told people she was going to use to kill me. They just took the weapon away but let her still walk around, to where she found me and still ended up trying to hurt me. I asked why they didn’t do something else about it and their reasoning was because they didn’t want any bad publicity for the sorority. I know we didn’t need it but at the same time if you have someone with a weapon saying they are going to kill someone, you kinda need to do something about it. So to me I felt that their reputation was more important than my safety and ended up making the tough decision to disaffiliate. I knew some of them weren’t going to talk to me afterwards, but my closest friends in the sorority did too. And unfortunately for me I still lived in their area so I got dirty looks all the time and just never wanted to leave because I didn’t want to deal with how they treated me. The whole thing broke my heart.