msursulabuffay (New Member)

Member Since 06/28/2016

From Utah

  • msursulabuffay 8 years ago on Why Is It So Hard To Orgasm?

    All right. TSM ate my first comment. But my devotion to do a sister a solid caused me not only to register (I usually lurk) but actually comment. Why? Because this was my life. For the first five years of sexual activity, I could not get there. Didn’t matter what I did, what toys I used, what tricks I looked up on the internet. Nothing. This is the book that finally taught me how to orgasm: The Elusive Orgasm by Vivienne Cass)Is it cheesy? Yes. Will you want to skip out on the weird journal/reflection exercises? Yes. Should you? NO. Because they work, damnit. TLDR; the first step is figuring out how to DIY when it comes to orgasms. You’ll figure out your body, and you’ll figure out how to relay this to your sex life with a partner. Remember, most women don’t orgasm with regular old P in V sex. You are normal. You just gotta figure out what gets you there.

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