Hey classoversass, I think that maybe if your relationship with your grandbig’s other littles is still in tact then maybe don’t try and get adopted. I tried that and my grandbig got upset because she said that she, her big and other littles were trying to keep me involved with the family but maybe every situation is different.
Can confirm. My big transferred last spring after having one semester with her. I wanted to find someone else to help me because I was struggling with everything. When I tried my Grandbig called me and was furious. Now she’s “adopted” another girl who’s big left her just as mine did but they don’t call each other secret anything. They call themselves Big/Little loud and proud and do family pictures that I’m not in. Feel the love.
Hey classoversass, I think that maybe if your relationship with your grandbig’s other littles is still in tact then maybe don’t try and get adopted. I tried that and my grandbig got upset because she said that she, her big and other littles were trying to keep me involved with the family but maybe every situation is different.
Can confirm. My big transferred last spring after having one semester with her. I wanted to find someone else to help me because I was struggling with everything. When I tried my Grandbig called me and was furious. Now she’s “adopted” another girl who’s big left her just as mine did but they don’t call each other secret anything. They call themselves Big/Little loud and proud and do family pictures that I’m not in. Feel the love.