Bringing your boyfriend to college was the worst thing YOU could do. But don’t tell everyone else that’s their worst decision too.
First of all you had shallow intentions when looking for a “boyfriend”. “I was dead set to connect my name to anyone who could likely turn out to be a popular fraternity guy.” No wonder it turned out poorly.
Secondly, you found him on tinder. Not usually the best way to find boyfriend material since its know as a hook up app.
You only started talking to him because he already had bids and played sports- shallow
” It was every sorority girls dream” – I guess if you’re only focused on image and not having a meaningful relationship
“My first thought was to text his roommate, who had become one of my best friends.”- his friends are HIS friends. You should have known this going in. You can’t expect his brothers to take his ex’s side.
“It was already into my sophomore year and the only friends I had belonged to him”- this is why you ALWAYS need to make your own friend group / support system outside of your relationship. Your only friends shouldn’t be his fraternity brothers. That’s…sad.
But youve learned and grown from this. – Great!
Ladies don’t cling to a guy and consume his life as your own because your caught up in some fantasy dream image. You should have never brought a DOUCHEBAG to college with you.
My boyfriend and I went to college together and it’s been amazing. He even took a year off after high school to wait for me to graduate. We live together and he has never ditched me for a party, I’m always invited. He has his fraternity brothers, who I’m close with too but they aren’t my only friends and I’m rushing this semester. We still have our own lives while brining each other up. We’re both on deans list. He cooks for me, I cook for him. I get woken up every morning with kisses.
You can be strong an independent without getting stepped on first.
Bringing my boyfriend to college has been the best experience for me because we actually love each other and plan to spend our future together.
It’s not always a horror story when you bring your boyfriend to college. So don’t let this article scare you into dumping your bf before college.
Bringing your boyfriend to college was the worst thing YOU could do. But don’t tell everyone else that’s their worst decision too.
First of all you had shallow intentions when looking for a “boyfriend”. “I was dead set to connect my name to anyone who could likely turn out to be a popular fraternity guy.” No wonder it turned out poorly.
Secondly, you found him on tinder. Not usually the best way to find boyfriend material since its know as a hook up app.
You only started talking to him because he already had bids and played sports- shallow
” It was every sorority girls dream” – I guess if you’re only focused on image and not having a meaningful relationship
“My first thought was to text his roommate, who had become one of my best friends.”- his friends are HIS friends. You should have known this going in. You can’t expect his brothers to take his ex’s side.
“It was already into my sophomore year and the only friends I had belonged to him”- this is why you ALWAYS need to make your own friend group / support system outside of your relationship. Your only friends shouldn’t be his fraternity brothers. That’s…sad.
But youve learned and grown from this. – Great!
Ladies don’t cling to a guy and consume his life as your own because your caught up in some fantasy dream image. You should have never brought a DOUCHEBAG to college with you.
My boyfriend and I went to college together and it’s been amazing. He even took a year off after high school to wait for me to graduate. We live together and he has never ditched me for a party, I’m always invited. He has his fraternity brothers, who I’m close with too but they aren’t my only friends and I’m rushing this semester. We still have our own lives while brining each other up. We’re both on deans list. He cooks for me, I cook for him. I get woken up every morning with kisses.
You can be strong an independent without getting stepped on first.
Bringing my boyfriend to college has been the best experience for me because we actually love each other and plan to spend our future together.
It’s not always a horror story when you bring your boyfriend to college. So don’t let this article scare you into dumping your bf before college.
Don’t date for status.