Thank you! Someone said it! I honestly wouldn’t have mind being hazed, (not the kind that makes you stand in front of a frat house in just your underwear hazing) but making girls go to sisterhood events! I feel now hazing is being considered anything that hurts someone’s feeling, you can’t even tell a sister her dress is ugly with out the hazing card thrown, Nationals called, threats of a chapter being shut down, and being stripped of your letters. I can’t tell you how disappointing it is to be excited for an event to have next to no sisters show up just because it wasn’t mandatory. Even now as an active it’s frustrating watching new members missing out on what they don’t even know they’re missing, or not being able to tell them their behavior is bad.
Really depends on the girl friend and situation, naturally if my guy friends got a GF and they felt threatened by me id back off a bit to prove nothing is going on, then you have girl friends that get territorial over the guy friend and make the GF feel worse on purpose, those are usually the ones that have the feelings, I had a ex BF and his girl friend swear up and down all they ever were was best friends, and would even go as far as joking how they were siblings and call each other brother and sister, but last time I checked you don’t f*ck your sister. So again depends on the people involved but for the most part I agree, somewhat.
I can’t tell you how many sisters I’ve met with the same painstaking experience I’ve gone through, when I share my story of being sexual assaulted I shouldn’t see so many sisters raise theirs hands showing they have lived through the same experience. At 16 I shouldn’t have been told I should be lucky that someone wanted to touch me in that way, I shouldn’t have been told that it was him showing his love, I shouldn’t have been told that my rape wasn’t real rape just because he was my boyfriend. Thank you TSM for posting this, for showing your support to this awareness.
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The best thing I’ve ever watched
Shit this hits hard
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Thank you! Someone said it! I honestly wouldn’t have mind being hazed, (not the kind that makes you stand in front of a frat house in just your underwear hazing) but making girls go to sisterhood events! I feel now hazing is being considered anything that hurts someone’s feeling, you can’t even tell a sister her dress is ugly with out the hazing card thrown, Nationals called, threats of a chapter being shut down, and being stripped of your letters. I can’t tell you how disappointing it is to be excited for an event to have next to no sisters show up just because it wasn’t mandatory. Even now as an active it’s frustrating watching new members missing out on what they don’t even know they’re missing, or not being able to tell them their behavior is bad.
Really depends on the girl friend and situation, naturally if my guy friends got a GF and they felt threatened by me id back off a bit to prove nothing is going on, then you have girl friends that get territorial over the guy friend and make the GF feel worse on purpose, those are usually the ones that have the feelings, I had a ex BF and his girl friend swear up and down all they ever were was best friends, and would even go as far as joking how they were siblings and call each other brother and sister, but last time I checked you don’t f*ck your sister. So again depends on the people involved but for the most part I agree, somewhat.
I can’t tell you how many sisters I’ve met with the same painstaking experience I’ve gone through, when I share my story of being sexual assaulted I shouldn’t see so many sisters raise theirs hands showing they have lived through the same experience. At 16 I shouldn’t have been told I should be lucky that someone wanted to touch me in that way, I shouldn’t have been told that it was him showing his love, I shouldn’t have been told that my rape wasn’t real rape just because he was my boyfriend. Thank you TSM for posting this, for showing your support to this awareness.
Is there a way to have this taken down??