Not every sorority and/or chapter allows it. I adopted my little after a serious discussion that she had with her pledge mom and after she had tried to reconcile with her former big. There wasn’t really a formal way of doing it, it was just like the story here. Where they took their picture, I had a reveal for her and that was that.
This was 100% me until two months ago. I was so worked up for all of college about the fact that no guy had ever actually liked me that I had to set parameters to force myself to chill out and not let it wreck my first post-grad summer. Not two weeks later, I met my now-boyfriend. All I can say is that the ability to take a breath and a step back to focus on yourself and your needs is the most important thing.
I understand what you’re saying and it’s definitely funny but ACTUAL arranged marriages are a terrible thing lol. It’s a huge problem in the Middle East and it’s not some ideal marriage, it’d be awesome if it was but its not.
Literally love this. When I joined my sorority we were considered “bottom tier” (or as bottom tier as you can get a tiny, tiny Pennsylvania college which, really, wasn’t that “bottom tier”) but by the time I got to senior year SO many girls and a lot of guys would say “I never knew blahblah’s were so chill!” like… yeah? I find that most of the girls in “bottom tier” sororities have the tightest sisterhoods but that’s just my experience (in no way saying “top tier” sisterhoods aren’t just as tight).
She chose Big because he was insanely wealthy and Aiden was poor. Are you really surprised that someone as vain and materialistic as Carrie Bradshaw would marry a guy for his money?
Yeah, because if a guy had refused to sleep with and summarily dumped a girl based solely on the fact that upon removing her push-up bra he discovered her boobs were a cup size smaller than he hoped, you’d totally be “applauding” him for “not being pressured into doing something he didn’t want to do in bed”. You absolutely wouldn’t be calling him a shallow, body-shaming piece of shit for dumping a girl he liked solely because of the size of one part of her anatomy. Nope, you’d be praising him. This standard of yours would totally apply to the other gender. Right.
Maybe you should do some research before saying an entire culture is
wrong or a problem, because I think your ethnocentrism is the real problem☺️
Not every sorority and/or chapter allows it. I adopted my little after a serious discussion that she had with her pledge mom and after she had tried to reconcile with her former big. There wasn’t really a formal way of doing it, it was just like the story here. Where they took their picture, I had a reveal for her and that was that.
When your parents can actually make the hot neighbor boy happen
For sure.
how does one get adopted? my big is the literal worst but i don’t know how to get out of this relationship
This was 100% me until two months ago. I was so worked up for all of college about the fact that no guy had ever actually liked me that I had to set parameters to force myself to chill out and not let it wreck my first post-grad summer. Not two weeks later, I met my now-boyfriend. All I can say is that the ability to take a breath and a step back to focus on yourself and your needs is the most important thing.
I understand what you’re saying and it’s definitely funny but ACTUAL arranged marriages are a terrible thing lol. It’s a huge problem in the Middle East and it’s not some ideal marriage, it’d be awesome if it was but its not.
Can’t you be nice please and laugh a little
Literally love this. When I joined my sorority we were considered “bottom tier” (or as bottom tier as you can get a tiny, tiny Pennsylvania college which, really, wasn’t that “bottom tier”) but by the time I got to senior year SO many girls and a lot of guys would say “I never knew blahblah’s were so chill!” like… yeah? I find that most of the girls in “bottom tier” sororities have the tightest sisterhoods but that’s just my experience (in no way saying “top tier” sisterhoods aren’t just as tight).
The “megabed” was about as good of an idea as bringing 2 dates!
She chose Big because he was insanely wealthy and Aiden was poor. Are you really surprised that someone as vain and materialistic as Carrie Bradshaw would marry a guy for his money?
Yeah, because if a guy had refused to sleep with and summarily dumped a girl based solely on the fact that upon removing her push-up bra he discovered her boobs were a cup size smaller than he hoped, you’d totally be “applauding” him for “not being pressured into doing something he didn’t want to do in bed”. You absolutely wouldn’t be calling him a shallow, body-shaming piece of shit for dumping a girl he liked solely because of the size of one part of her anatomy. Nope, you’d be praising him. This standard of yours would totally apply to the other gender. Right.
You honestly did this guy a favor by dumping him. He deserves a lot better than you.
What’s a wawa ): what’s a pinnie ):
This is honestly the most helpful thing I’ve ever read. Thank God for TSM
Was wondering that too.
This is my actual dream
You should def watch the best show ever, called Married at First Sight. Modern day arranged marriages!
I love my adopted Big more than she loves vodka redbulls.