I think use of standards has more to do with how a chapter operates locally, rather than on the national level. I sat on Standards for 2 years and all but 1 or 2 of the issues we faced were academic probation or not paying dues. We knew things were going on but since they were isolated, we ignored them. The one or two non academic or financial issues were after repeated incidents.
Either way, I think your (and anyone else who encounters standards) experience has more to do with your chapter than your nationals.
“Not too sure, I’d need to be more informed on the candidates” doesn’t sounds like you don’t have party affiliations, it sounds like you’re not politically informed. I understand that a lot of people don’t know much about politics, but I do and it drives me crazy that because I’m in a ~sorority~ I should either be a conservative (I’m not), be uninformed about important issues (I’m am informed), or just do what my parents tell me to do (I don’t)
Honestly I was that way until I met the guy I married (got married at the beginning of junior year. Not for everyone but it worked for me). Until I met him I cycled through guys like it was spin class. Then we met and I was done lol. So don’t feel any shame, there’s definitely nothing wrong with you, you just refuse to get invested in a guy who isn’t worth your time.
This is old, but for any girls that say “I have many guy friends who don’t want to be with me and vise versa”, go ahead and text all of your guy friends hey I’m really horny right now. Wanna hookup? or something along those lines and see which ones dont come knocking. Bet.
The option y’all interpreted as uninformed seemed like it was intended to mean that you don’t vote for a specific party, you evaluate each election based on the candidates running at the time. And there’s absolutely nothing wrong with being a conservative (or liberal)! The only one of those options that is bad is the one about blindly following your parents views.
I agree. In our chapter, standards is supposed to be used as a last resort. As in, you’ve talked to your sister a few times and you’re still not getting through to them. But a lot of girls just use standards wayyyy too often and just because they’re too immature to go have an adult conversation with their sister. Of course some situations that are serious need to be sent straight to standards but it’s often used as crutch for people with no back bone
If you think you’re better than he is, or have more potential than him, get off your high horse and learn some humility. I hope he has a very successful happy future, and you’re burned out and single when you’re 35.
Doing something because of an ex is only bad if it’s holding you back! If you use that energy and fuel it into something positive, that’s the best way to do it! You go girl.
I know I know. I really need to start cleaning my sheets more!
I think use of standards has more to do with how a chapter operates locally, rather than on the national level. I sat on Standards for 2 years and all but 1 or 2 of the issues we faced were academic probation or not paying dues. We knew things were going on but since they were isolated, we ignored them. The one or two non academic or financial issues were after repeated incidents.
Either way, I think your (and anyone else who encounters standards) experience has more to do with your chapter than your nationals.
This was a wake up call. Thank you.
Some of this stuff: no way in hell. Other things on this list: you’re missing out!
This video made me smile so much
“Not too sure, I’d need to be more informed on the candidates” doesn’t sounds like you don’t have party affiliations, it sounds like you’re not politically informed. I understand that a lot of people don’t know much about politics, but I do and it drives me crazy that because I’m in a ~sorority~ I should either be a conservative (I’m not), be uninformed about important issues (I’m am informed), or just do what my parents tell me to do (I don’t)
I’m a Taurus and that could not be more correct for me wow
Never thought I’d miss the Kardashian articles, but can we go ahead and hop off of Mariah Carey’s dick now? She hasn’t been relevant in years.
Exactly^ it was shitty of the sister, but I don’t see how that translates to standards being out of line. This article makes no sense.
I have cousins with hair that long. It sounds like such a pain to deal with on a daily basis
Honestly I was that way until I met the guy I married (got married at the beginning of junior year. Not for everyone but it worked for me). Until I met him I cycled through guys like it was spin class. Then we met and I was done lol. So don’t feel any shame, there’s definitely nothing wrong with you, you just refuse to get invested in a guy who isn’t worth your time.
This is old, but for any girls that say “I have many guy friends who don’t want to be with me and vise versa”, go ahead and text all of your guy friends hey I’m really horny right now. Wanna hookup? or something along those lines and see which ones dont come knocking. Bet.
oh honey. There are no singular candidates. Just those who have super PACs behind them.
Those videos are mesmerizing
The option y’all interpreted as uninformed seemed like it was intended to mean that you don’t vote for a specific party, you evaluate each election based on the candidates running at the time. And there’s absolutely nothing wrong with being a conservative (or liberal)! The only one of those options that is bad is the one about blindly following your parents views.
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I agree. In our chapter, standards is supposed to be used as a last resort. As in, you’ve talked to your sister a few times and you’re still not getting through to them. But a lot of girls just use standards wayyyy too often and just because they’re too immature to go have an adult conversation with their sister. Of course some situations that are serious need to be sent straight to standards but it’s often used as crutch for people with no back bone
This post is shit
If you think you’re better than he is, or have more potential than him, get off your high horse and learn some humility. I hope he has a very successful happy future, and you’re burned out and single when you’re 35.
Doing something because of an ex is only bad if it’s holding you back! If you use that energy and fuel it into something positive, that’s the best way to do it! You go girl.