I was in a three year relationship and we tried to take a break to fix VERY SIMILAR problems, that occurred throughout our relationship but I would very much advise against that. Sometimes you just know that it’s over and it sucks, and it’s okay to cry and be upset but you have to take care of yourself first always. You can hope all you want, but it is not going to fix him. You can give him space, make him feel like he needs you, trust me – I tried everything. But it just gets to a point when you know that it’s over and I think you’re there.
But making someone go to events isn’t hazing? Sure, I wouldn’t have minded doing skits as a new member class for the girls who accepted us into their sisterhood, or maybe a scavenger hunt here and there, but I’m honestly so proud to be a part of a chapter that views us all equally from the get go. I didn’t NEED to be hazed to respect and be respected by our sisterhood.
I was in a three year relationship and we tried to take a break to fix VERY SIMILAR problems, that occurred throughout our relationship but I would very much advise against that. Sometimes you just know that it’s over and it sucks, and it’s okay to cry and be upset but you have to take care of yourself first always. You can hope all you want, but it is not going to fix him. You can give him space, make him feel like he needs you, trust me – I tried everything. But it just gets to a point when you know that it’s over and I think you’re there.
But making someone go to events isn’t hazing? Sure, I wouldn’t have minded doing skits as a new member class for the girls who accepted us into their sisterhood, or maybe a scavenger hunt here and there, but I’m honestly so proud to be a part of a chapter that views us all equally from the get go. I didn’t NEED to be hazed to respect and be respected by our sisterhood.