As a survivor of rape, thank you for saying that. Matt couldn’t read her mind, so unless she made some sort of indication that she didn’t want sex, it’s not anywhere near being in a “gray area.”
I understand that we might have sex that we didn’t want necessarily. The problem is that we need to express our opinions rather than stay silent. In a perfect world, it would be simple and understood. However, it’s not perfect.
Rape is not a color scale issue – you either are or you aren’t. It’s not a fun feeling to experience sex you didn’t want, but it’s up to us to try and change this by expressing our feelings upfront.
As a survivor of rape, thank you for saying that. Matt couldn’t read her mind, so unless she made some sort of indication that she didn’t want sex, it’s not anywhere near being in a “gray area.”
I understand that we might have sex that we didn’t want necessarily. The problem is that we need to express our opinions rather than stay silent. In a perfect world, it would be simple and understood. However, it’s not perfect.
Rape is not a color scale issue – you either are or you aren’t. It’s not a fun feeling to experience sex you didn’t want, but it’s up to us to try and change this by expressing our feelings upfront.