I’ve had multiple women say “no” when we’d be making out and I’d make a move or something similar, and they would sound serious about it. I always back off after that, it’s how I was raised. However, in half these situations, after I would stop and suggest something else to do, or even immediately after I backed off sometimes, the woman would say something like “oh, I actually wanted you to keep going” and a couple actually left because they were like “you should have known I wanted you to keep going” telling me I need to be more manly or dominant or some crap. And this is not a one time thing, I can guarantee other guys have had multiple women do this stuff to. So, yes, a decent amount of women ARE in fact playing these games in bed. I’ve been with women who actually had rape fantasies, it’s ridiculous. I’m going to continue backing off when I hear “no” because I don’t want a false rape charge ever, but please don’t be naive about this.
I’ve had multiple women say “no” when we’d be making out and I’d make a move or something similar, and they would sound serious about it. I always back off after that, it’s how I was raised. However, in half these situations, after I would stop and suggest something else to do, or even immediately after I backed off sometimes, the woman would say something like “oh, I actually wanted you to keep going” and a couple actually left because they were like “you should have known I wanted you to keep going” telling me I need to be more manly or dominant or some crap. And this is not a one time thing, I can guarantee other guys have had multiple women do this stuff to. So, yes, a decent amount of women ARE in fact playing these games in bed. I’ve been with women who actually had rape fantasies, it’s ridiculous. I’m going to continue backing off when I hear “no” because I don’t want a false rape charge ever, but please don’t be naive about this.