Simple. Don’t fuck with guys like this. You’re complicit in it since you participate too and encourage it. Lots of guys who are real and will be straight up with you if you want to find them. Swipe right and actually talk to a guy who’s not in your narrow type sometime and test it out.
I have to commend you for laying your vulnerabilities out online. But perhaps this past is why you’re having guy trouble now? All these allusions to crying over guys who ignore multiple texts/do other things that aren’t mature or considerate. It may be time to consider that you’re valuing the wrong things in guys, and “boys” aren’t dumb, rather the subgroup you tend to limit yourself to.
Simple. Don’t fuck with guys like this. You’re complicit in it since you participate too and encourage it. Lots of guys who are real and will be straight up with you if you want to find them. Swipe right and actually talk to a guy who’s not in your narrow type sometime and test it out.
I have to commend you for laying your vulnerabilities out online. But perhaps this past is why you’re having guy trouble now? All these allusions to crying over guys who ignore multiple texts/do other things that aren’t mature or considerate. It may be time to consider that you’re valuing the wrong things in guys, and “boys” aren’t dumb, rather the subgroup you tend to limit yourself to.