While I agree with you for the most part, no one will ever know EXACTLY how someone was treated by an organization or its members, until they went through it themselves. It’s so easy to be like, “well, she doesn’t respect my letters so I don’t respect her,” but listen to how petty that sounds! It’s different when someone just dropped because they realized when it wasn’t for them compared to someone who dropped because they had their own sisters treat them so badly that they were anything than a sister. I’m taking time away from my own organization because I had my own sisters throw drinks on me, start awful rumors about myself, key my 60k car, start verbal arguments in public settings, etc. all because of one party that got busted and I was responsible for an underage drinking citation. The last semester of being in my sorority was the worst semester of my life, because when I should have felt like I had 130 women to call my sisters and to support me, I had no one but my big.
And to be completely honest? I have no problem bad mouthing my chapter. Not one bit. It breaks my heart to think about having another PNM feel like she made one of the worst decisions to join my chapter. I always tell girls to keep an open mind, no matter my experiences, but to be very wary. Hold you chapter to its actions — you’re doing no one a favor by not doing so, even that chapter. I do, however, believe I can’t say my NATIONAL letters are responsible for these things, and that’s why I continue to hold our rituals to my heart.
Because one sister was extremely jealous we were hanging out with “her” fraternity, got her boyfriend to go along with the “they broke in the house and stole drugs” fiasco and framed us. Feel free to discuss with other brothers what happened that night because it seems you aren’t very well educated on the situation!
I have always been aware of what Kappa Delta’s values are and what our motto is. However, it seems you need to be reminded. Take a look through your Norman Shield one more time and really think about what AOT is, and then come back to me and evaluate the things that you say and the actions in which you take are see if they match up to GREAT, AOT, or Ta Kala Diokomen. I’m sure you will find that they don’t and that you may not be Kappa Delta material.
Excuse me, but what is your problem? You must be confused as to who is in the picture because I don’t know of either of us ever doing drugs, ever cheating on anyone, or ever “sleeping around.”
Neither of us have ever requested drugs or even done them. The bride has always been and always will be faithful to her husband, hence why she took her vows. I would not qualify her relationship with him as sleeping around, nor anyone else in this picture as she has been seeing one person for a very long time who isn’t even affiliated with their school. And yes, we are big and little.
I’m sure you probably have other things you could be doing, like keying people’s 60k car, spreading more false rumors, or sneaking boys and alcohol into your house to more mixers shut down!
The last time I checked she wasn’t wearing letters, throwing what she knows, or even saying she was in a sorority. It was a funny story that had to do with her being a girl – not a SORORITY girl, and not a SLUTTY girl. You have got to stop letting your organization dictate everything you do and how you do it or you will never live your life, but always your organization’s. They’re there to let you become better versions of yourselves, but granted there will always be minor mishaps (especially when they aren’t even mentioned in the act…).
Honestly, it depends.
While I agree with you for the most part, no one will ever know EXACTLY how someone was treated by an organization or its members, until they went through it themselves. It’s so easy to be like, “well, she doesn’t respect my letters so I don’t respect her,” but listen to how petty that sounds! It’s different when someone just dropped because they realized when it wasn’t for them compared to someone who dropped because they had their own sisters treat them so badly that they were anything than a sister. I’m taking time away from my own organization because I had my own sisters throw drinks on me, start awful rumors about myself, key my 60k car, start verbal arguments in public settings, etc. all because of one party that got busted and I was responsible for an underage drinking citation. The last semester of being in my sorority was the worst semester of my life, because when I should have felt like I had 130 women to call my sisters and to support me, I had no one but my big.
And to be completely honest? I have no problem bad mouthing my chapter. Not one bit. It breaks my heart to think about having another PNM feel like she made one of the worst decisions to join my chapter. I always tell girls to keep an open mind, no matter my experiences, but to be very wary. Hold you chapter to its actions — you’re doing no one a favor by not doing so, even that chapter. I do, however, believe I can’t say my NATIONAL letters are responsible for these things, and that’s why I continue to hold our rituals to my heart.
#5 was heavily involved the night of that picture of us over the toilets being taken for #6 haha
I mean, I thought it was funny. Loosen up.
Lucille and I have a lot in common
Because one sister was extremely jealous we were hanging out with “her” fraternity, got her boyfriend to go along with the “they broke in the house and stole drugs” fiasco and framed us. Feel free to discuss with other brothers what happened that night because it seems you aren’t very well educated on the situation!
I have always been aware of what Kappa Delta’s values are and what our motto is. However, it seems you need to be reminded. Take a look through your Norman Shield one more time and really think about what AOT is, and then come back to me and evaluate the things that you say and the actions in which you take are see if they match up to GREAT, AOT, or Ta Kala Diokomen. I’m sure you will find that they don’t and that you may not be Kappa Delta material.
Excuse me, but what is your problem? You must be confused as to who is in the picture because I don’t know of either of us ever doing drugs, ever cheating on anyone, or ever “sleeping around.”
Neither of us have ever requested drugs or even done them. The bride has always been and always will be faithful to her husband, hence why she took her vows. I would not qualify her relationship with him as sleeping around, nor anyone else in this picture as she has been seeing one person for a very long time who isn’t even affiliated with their school. And yes, we are big and little.
I’m sure you probably have other things you could be doing, like keying people’s 60k car, spreading more false rumors, or sneaking boys and alcohol into your house to more mixers shut down!
Thank you again and have a nice day! AOT sister!
The last time I checked she wasn’t wearing letters, throwing what she knows, or even saying she was in a sorority. It was a funny story that had to do with her being a girl – not a SORORITY girl, and not a SLUTTY girl. You have got to stop letting your organization dictate everything you do and how you do it or you will never live your life, but always your organization’s. They’re there to let you become better versions of yourselves, but granted there will always be minor mishaps (especially when they aren’t even mentioned in the act…).