Great article! I went through recruitment after my first year in athletics and was happier with my sisters than my teammates. Going greek was the best decision I ever made. I’m happy to know that other athletes are also in the greek system.
I disagree, I think it is a TSM. I have seen this kind of behavior happen on my Greek row, I do not support it but it happens. So I see it as a relatable TSM post. And I agree it hurts but I don’t think the author/publisher should be getting attacked this viciously, I’ve been cheated on and ya it sucks. But I never blamed myself or the other girl, even if she knew what she was doing. It is her choice to act that way. I know I am in the minority with my opinions on this article but I just do not see why everyone is THIS upset.
I agree with some of your points but I stand behind what I said. And you’re right maybe this isn’t about being Greek but I think this site is aimed towards the Greek community more than any other audience. I also don’t see how it’s hurtful. It’s just an article… the article is not aimed at any specific person. Lastly, I don’t think one article can discredit all the amazing letters and stories on this site.
So I agree with you about how this behavior should not be promoted in the Greek community and it is an unfair represenatation of panhellenic women. BUT why is everyone so upset about this? There are other articles on this site that also encourage unhealthy drinking habits but no one freaks out like this on those articles. Cheating/Drinking/Drugs are all something that happens in the Greek community. Get over yourself. If we want to change this image we have to all change our own actions first, Nationwide.
I’m with “From Rush to Rehab”, everyone just needs to breathe. I understand Recruitment or Recruitment Retreat is just around the corner but holy crap… Everyone calm down.
Everyone who is commenting negatively on this article and calling it “unsisterly” or “not showing panhellenic love” you’re being just as bad. I don’t know what your sisterhood says but I was taught to love my sisters no matter what. “Boys are temporary but sisters are for life”. It doesn’t matter what house you’re in, that quote holds true for every house and for life
Now I don’t work for TSM but I really don’t think they were trying to “create an internet shit-storm and gain the temporarily increased viewership that follows it.” It’s just an article and everyone has their right to post what they feel. Just like you are commenting here. My columns and my post haven’t been published but I don’t take that personally. There are so many women that submit to TSM on a daily basis it’s crazy. I would say the number is comparable tp the amount of women that go through recruitment nation wide and do not recieve a bid to any house. It happens. Just like getting cheated on happens. Everyone will get over it
I don’t think the writers at TSM were trying to “stir up a shit storm”. It’s just an article. I honestly do not understand why so many followers are upset with this article and are calling it “distasteful”. This happens in the Greek community, its not promoted, but it happens, and that’s just what I think.
They are definitely the power couple of the row too 🙂
Great article! I went through recruitment after my first year in athletics and was happier with my sisters than my teammates. Going greek was the best decision I ever made. I’m happy to know that other athletes are also in the greek system.
https://totalsororitymove.com/how-to-handle-being-cheated-on/
Ps. This came out a week earlier. I dont think an apology is needed.
I disagree, I think it is a TSM. I have seen this kind of behavior happen on my Greek row, I do not support it but it happens. So I see it as a relatable TSM post. And I agree it hurts but I don’t think the author/publisher should be getting attacked this viciously, I’ve been cheated on and ya it sucks. But I never blamed myself or the other girl, even if she knew what she was doing. It is her choice to act that way. I know I am in the minority with my opinions on this article but I just do not see why everyone is THIS upset.
I agree with some of your points but I stand behind what I said. And you’re right maybe this isn’t about being Greek but I think this site is aimed towards the Greek community more than any other audience. I also don’t see how it’s hurtful. It’s just an article… the article is not aimed at any specific person. Lastly, I don’t think one article can discredit all the amazing letters and stories on this site.
So you support every other article TSM has posted?
https://totalsororitymove.com/17-easy-steps-to-get-you-from-day-drunk-to-your-night-out/
^This article has 1002 “Nice Moves” so far. And this promotes heavy drinking. I don’t see you or anyone else throwing a fit there.
So I agree with you about how this behavior should not be promoted in the Greek community and it is an unfair represenatation of panhellenic women. BUT why is everyone so upset about this? There are other articles on this site that also encourage unhealthy drinking habits but no one freaks out like this on those articles. Cheating/Drinking/Drugs are all something that happens in the Greek community. Get over yourself. If we want to change this image we have to all change our own actions first, Nationwide.
I’m with “From Rush to Rehab”, everyone just needs to breathe. I understand Recruitment or Recruitment Retreat is just around the corner but holy crap… Everyone calm down.
Everyone who is commenting negatively on this article and calling it “unsisterly” or “not showing panhellenic love” you’re being just as bad. I don’t know what your sisterhood says but I was taught to love my sisters no matter what. “Boys are temporary but sisters are for life”. It doesn’t matter what house you’re in, that quote holds true for every house and for life
Now I don’t work for TSM but I really don’t think they were trying to “create an internet shit-storm and gain the temporarily increased viewership that follows it.” It’s just an article and everyone has their right to post what they feel. Just like you are commenting here. My columns and my post haven’t been published but I don’t take that personally. There are so many women that submit to TSM on a daily basis it’s crazy. I would say the number is comparable tp the amount of women that go through recruitment nation wide and do not recieve a bid to any house. It happens. Just like getting cheated on happens. Everyone will get over it
I don’t think the writers at TSM were trying to “stir up a shit storm”. It’s just an article. I honestly do not understand why so many followers are upset with this article and are calling it “distasteful”. This happens in the Greek community, its not promoted, but it happens, and that’s just what I think.
I didn’t see it as satire but I agree with you. I don’t understand why everyone is taking this so seriously… It’s just an article.
Dreams do come true
Great read. <3