Good! Fuck him for judging what you’ve done in the past. And God forbid people experiment sexually, not as if that’s how we learn what we like or anything.
No, not wanting a relationship isn’t sociopathic, but manipulating people into doing what you want and not considering how it might affect them- in her words, being “immune to human emotion”- is textbook sociopathy. It is when guys do it, too.
I think asking how many sexual partners students have had is too far, but sometimes surveys ask how many times students have sex drunk to help research just how much alcohol influences consent (and therefore sexual assault) at that particular university. There’s still a lot of research being conducted into how drinking culture affects sexual assault.
I feel you. Everybody was just so awful to each other that year that I lived in house. It was like Mean Girls IRL. I made an effort at first, because they’d made me feel so loved and welcomed during my new member period and I wanted to make them feel the same way. But most of them didn’t really give a shit about me after initiation. Their job was done, so they didn’t have to act like they wanted to get to know me anymore. Eventually I just realized that most of them weren’t very nice people, and I couldn’t deal with all the drama, tumors and shit talking that went on in my house. I know not every house is like that, but mine was, unfortunately.
During recruitment my junior year, they made me give house tours, and I realized while practicing that I didn’t have much of anything good to say about living in house. (Except the study files, thank God.) So that was pretty much it for me right there.
I guess by living with people you get to know who they truly are. Unfortunately that’s not always a good thing.
I don’t think that was the point of this article at all. So many people (like you, for example) look down on students who didn’t pay for their own tuition. I have SO much respect for students who pay their own tuition. And I also respect my dad, who works 60+ hours a week and helped put me through school. I think people assume that anyone who didn’t have to pay for school must take their education for granted, but that isn’t the case. I worked my ass off to graduate with honors. No one should have to be shamed for who paid their tuition, whether it was them, their parents, or someone else.
Good! Fuck him for judging what you’ve done in the past. And God forbid people experiment sexually, not as if that’s how we learn what we like or anything.
No, not wanting a relationship isn’t sociopathic, but manipulating people into doing what you want and not considering how it might affect them- in her words, being “immune to human emotion”- is textbook sociopathy. It is when guys do it, too.
I think asking how many sexual partners students have had is too far, but sometimes surveys ask how many times students have sex drunk to help research just how much alcohol influences consent (and therefore sexual assault) at that particular university. There’s still a lot of research being conducted into how drinking culture affects sexual assault.
*Rumors, not tumors. Wow, bad typo.
I feel you. Everybody was just so awful to each other that year that I lived in house. It was like Mean Girls IRL. I made an effort at first, because they’d made me feel so loved and welcomed during my new member period and I wanted to make them feel the same way. But most of them didn’t really give a shit about me after initiation. Their job was done, so they didn’t have to act like they wanted to get to know me anymore. Eventually I just realized that most of them weren’t very nice people, and I couldn’t deal with all the drama, tumors and shit talking that went on in my house. I know not every house is like that, but mine was, unfortunately.
During recruitment my junior year, they made me give house tours, and I realized while practicing that I didn’t have much of anything good to say about living in house. (Except the study files, thank God.) So that was pretty much it for me right there.
I guess by living with people you get to know who they truly are. Unfortunately that’s not always a good thing.
I love fantasy football, though. I’m a girl. I have TWO fantasy football teams. Why am I still single?
Maybe it’s for the same reason one of my fantasy football teams tanked after my top 3 picks got hurt. Maybe I just have shit luck.
Or maybe I don’t offer to pay enough. That might be it.
I don’t think that was the point of this article at all. So many people (like you, for example) look down on students who didn’t pay for their own tuition. I have SO much respect for students who pay their own tuition. And I also respect my dad, who works 60+ hours a week and helped put me through school. I think people assume that anyone who didn’t have to pay for school must take their education for granted, but that isn’t the case. I worked my ass off to graduate with honors. No one should have to be shamed for who paid their tuition, whether it was them, their parents, or someone else.