My situation is slightly different but I don’t feel it was rape or consensual. I had a couple drinks and ended up bringing a guy home with me. But I was blacked out and don’t remember the entire night. Drunk me was probably ready for sex. But sober me wanted to wait until I got married. I didn’t know anything happened that night. Next thing I know it’s a month later and I missed my period. Now that I know what happened I feel violated. I don’t want to call it rape cause I fully believe that my drunk state of mind wanted to have sex. He didn’t know that if I was sober I would have said no. But I didn’t want it and now I have to live with what happened and the result of that night. I don’t feel he deserves blame because he was just as drunk as I was. But it wasn’t consensual either.
My situation is slightly different but I don’t feel it was rape or consensual. I had a couple drinks and ended up bringing a guy home with me. But I was blacked out and don’t remember the entire night. Drunk me was probably ready for sex. But sober me wanted to wait until I got married. I didn’t know anything happened that night. Next thing I know it’s a month later and I missed my period. Now that I know what happened I feel violated. I don’t want to call it rape cause I fully believe that my drunk state of mind wanted to have sex. He didn’t know that if I was sober I would have said no. But I didn’t want it and now I have to live with what happened and the result of that night. I don’t feel he deserves blame because he was just as drunk as I was. But it wasn’t consensual either.