The ONE thing that makes me believe you aren’t out to steal boyfriends is when you said, “I’m not one of the guys.”
It’s the hoes constantly reminding everyone that they’re one of the guys who are stealing boyfriends.
You’re right, you can’t help who you fall in love with. But you CAN choose to not lie and sneak around. He could have easily broken up with his current gf when he first caught feelings if you meant that much to him. Oh, and how’s that paranoia from worrying he’s doing the same exact thing to you?
You’re part of the problem. You knowingly dated a guy with a girlfriend. If guys knew we wouldn’t be involved with them outside of a platonic friendship while they’re with someone else they wouldn’t try, or they’d try to get away with hiding y’all from each other. Since guys are lazy, I would think they wouldn’t try to hide you both and instead only be with one of you. Of course, you’re going to have the ones who get away with hiding their girlfriends from each other but it would cut the issue way down if we all agreed to be decent and not play with other girls’ boyfriends. If they don’t think it’s an option they won’t go for it.
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Because we can’t control how other people behave but we can decide how we will behave.
The ONE thing that makes me believe you aren’t out to steal boyfriends is when you said, “I’m not one of the guys.”
It’s the hoes constantly reminding everyone that they’re one of the guys who are stealing boyfriends.
You’re right, you can’t help who you fall in love with. But you CAN choose to not lie and sneak around. He could have easily broken up with his current gf when he first caught feelings if you meant that much to him. Oh, and how’s that paranoia from worrying he’s doing the same exact thing to you?
You’re part of the problem. You knowingly dated a guy with a girlfriend. If guys knew we wouldn’t be involved with them outside of a platonic friendship while they’re with someone else they wouldn’t try, or they’d try to get away with hiding y’all from each other. Since guys are lazy, I would think they wouldn’t try to hide you both and instead only be with one of you. Of course, you’re going to have the ones who get away with hiding their girlfriends from each other but it would cut the issue way down if we all agreed to be decent and not play with other girls’ boyfriends. If they don’t think it’s an option they won’t go for it.