TheOneAndOnly1 (PNM)

Member Since 08/04/2015

From Arkansas

  • TheOneAndOnly1 9 years ago on The Exhausting And Necessary Steps You Must Go Through Before A Guy Is Your Boyfriend

    This article is completely wrong, you need to make him work for it! He will not respect you as a human being if you give him sex without having a talk about his true intentions, without getting to know him as a person, if he doesn’t deserve it then don’t have sex with him. If he wants to be with you, he will go after you and if he doesn’t then all those times he texts you for sex is a complete waste. Trust me, I had to learn the hard way. Stand up for yourself and respect yourself, wait at least a few weeks, if he leaves because you aren’t “putting out” then run because that’s all he wanted to begin with and now you know. Men like to play games with our emotions and keep us hooked once we have had sex with them because as a woman it’s hard because we view sex as love. But a man does not. Some instances of hooking up may result in a relationship but better to be safe then sorry, especially if you really like the guy.

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  • TheOneAndOnly1 9 years ago on You Need To Stop "Making Him Work For It"

    This article is completely wrong, you need to make him work for it! He will not respect you as a human being if you give it up to him without having a talk about his true intentions. Stand up for yourself or learn the hard way!

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  • TheOneAndOnly1 9 years ago on You Need To Stop "Making Him Work For It"

    No, a no means no, a woman is never required to give up her free will for sex. I don’t care what the man thinks or is expecting, everyone has the free will to say no. I do agree that we as a culture need to start treating women with more respect and not as mere sexual objects, which some immature men think they are entitled to because you like them and talk to them at a bar. Even if you go home a woman is not expected to have sex with men. How completely ridiculous, every woman has a right to say no and get out of the situation if she is not comfortable.

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