to be fair, it sounds like they hate you because you stopped going with them not because you stopped joining them. I eat healthy too but I always go along for the ride to Jack in the Box/McDonald’s/Taco Bell, I just don’t buy anything. maybe thats why theyre shunning you?
THIS IS SO WRONG ON SO MANY LEVELS. not to be rude, but DO NOT listen to this. no offense but you kinda sound like youre in love with this guy but in total denial about it. how you ACTUALLY maintain a FWBship without the feels is to 1. pick someone you could never see yourself dating- your personalities aren’t alike, they have a major flaw like they only listen to Nickleback, they’re too young or old, etc. That way, you won’t fall in love with them. 2. Don’t ask don’t tell. You don’t want to feel anything toward this person other than lust, or mild feelings of enjoying their company. You esp don’t want to get jealous, that’s setting yourself up for failure. make an agreement to stay STD free, then don’t ask anything or say anything about who you hook up with. You can’t get jealous if you don’t know its happening. 3. Make the boundaries clear, don’t cross them, and don’t text them just to talk. The friend part just means you are friendly and like each other enough. DO NOT do a FWBship with an actual friend, cuz then you probably will end up liking them. Choose someone you don’t know very well or at all, like someone you hooked up with at a frat party. Have a one night stand, and if you enjoy it, ask them if they want to be fuck buddies and make it clear you don’t want a relationship. thats it, enjoy ladies and for the love of god do not listen to this article
I am happy for you but I do think it is a little degrading for people with smaller boobs…I know it wasn’t your intent.. I understand being totally flat chested and wanting boobs so you don’t look like a man topless.. but its okay to have small boobs and this article kind of makes it sound like not having big or medium sized boobs is bad and theres nothing good about them “except for not wearing a bra.” I am a B so my boobs are definitely on the smaller side but most of the guys I know dont care, and this article sort of makes it sound like having small boobs is the worst thing ever. Like I said I understand wanting to be not flat chested and Im glad you are doing something to help your self image but I would like this article better if it didn’t make it sound like not having C cups makes you less attractive.
this is so inaccurate… the big boobs guy should be the big butt guy. unless all the frat guys (or just guys in general) are some kind of anomaly, butts are in right now and the big boobs phase is over. not that guys dont like them, but ass is the new obsession now (thanks nicki)
Clearly you don’t have the right female friends if your nights out to eat consist of salad eating contests, all my female friends and I gorge on food to the point where we probably eat as much or more than my guy friends. Guy friends are really great though
Seriously listen to this advice. To anyone out there in the same situation, read this, then re read it. you are not too good for any house. Thinking that can ruin your chance for some amazing experiences. I went through this exact situation, rushing as a freshman and resenting that the only house that called me back to pref was the new one. I dropped instantly and horribly regretted it. My best friend joined that house and all my other friends joined other houses. I felt so left out all year, like I was missing being a part of something great. And I was. I rushed again next year and surprise surprise, only the new house would give me a bid as a sophomore. But this time I took it, and I absolutely love my house. Within just one year the girls in my house have worked so far to build a reputation, move from rock bottom to more in the middle, get a name on campus and recruit more amazing girls. And regardless of rank this experience was amazing, I love my sisters and my house and I only wish I had joined sooner. Yes it seems lame to go back to the house that seems to give a bid to anyone, but girls drop, disaffiliate, etc and weed out the girls who don’t mesh as well. Now we’re more selective because we have the ability to be. Being new is hard but it’s so worth it. I wouldn’t want to be in any other house and I’m so proud of my sisters, let yourself be surprised by how much a house can grow on you.
this is great
u completely bypassed sex with a fwb??? totally different from one night stands and having sex with someone who youre exclusively dating
can we acknowledge the pumpkin face
to be fair, it sounds like they hate you because you stopped going with them not because you stopped joining them. I eat healthy too but I always go along for the ride to Jack in the Box/McDonald’s/Taco Bell, I just don’t buy anything. maybe thats why theyre shunning you?
yeah srsly she also misspelled borders not to be THAT person but while were on the topic of proofreading…
you forgot the stoner! every house has them
YITS to all my sistahs around the globe <3 when i meet a dphie in another chapter it actually feels like im seeing a unicorn lol
THIS IS SO WRONG ON SO MANY LEVELS. not to be rude, but DO NOT listen to this. no offense but you kinda sound like youre in love with this guy but in total denial about it. how you ACTUALLY maintain a FWBship without the feels is to 1. pick someone you could never see yourself dating- your personalities aren’t alike, they have a major flaw like they only listen to Nickleback, they’re too young or old, etc. That way, you won’t fall in love with them. 2. Don’t ask don’t tell. You don’t want to feel anything toward this person other than lust, or mild feelings of enjoying their company. You esp don’t want to get jealous, that’s setting yourself up for failure. make an agreement to stay STD free, then don’t ask anything or say anything about who you hook up with. You can’t get jealous if you don’t know its happening. 3. Make the boundaries clear, don’t cross them, and don’t text them just to talk. The friend part just means you are friendly and like each other enough. DO NOT do a FWBship with an actual friend, cuz then you probably will end up liking them. Choose someone you don’t know very well or at all, like someone you hooked up with at a frat party. Have a one night stand, and if you enjoy it, ask them if they want to be fuck buddies and make it clear you don’t want a relationship. thats it, enjoy ladies and for the love of god do not listen to this article
I am happy for you but I do think it is a little degrading for people with smaller boobs…I know it wasn’t your intent.. I understand being totally flat chested and wanting boobs so you don’t look like a man topless.. but its okay to have small boobs and this article kind of makes it sound like not having big or medium sized boobs is bad and theres nothing good about them “except for not wearing a bra.” I am a B so my boobs are definitely on the smaller side but most of the guys I know dont care, and this article sort of makes it sound like having small boobs is the worst thing ever. Like I said I understand wanting to be not flat chested and Im glad you are doing something to help your self image but I would like this article better if it didn’t make it sound like not having C cups makes you less attractive.
this is so inaccurate… the big boobs guy should be the big butt guy. unless all the frat guys (or just guys in general) are some kind of anomaly, butts are in right now and the big boobs phase is over. not that guys dont like them, but ass is the new obsession now (thanks nicki)
Clearly you don’t have the right female friends if your nights out to eat consist of salad eating contests, all my female friends and I gorge on food to the point where we probably eat as much or more than my guy friends. Guy friends are really great though
Seriously listen to this advice. To anyone out there in the same situation, read this, then re read it. you are not too good for any house. Thinking that can ruin your chance for some amazing experiences. I went through this exact situation, rushing as a freshman and resenting that the only house that called me back to pref was the new one. I dropped instantly and horribly regretted it. My best friend joined that house and all my other friends joined other houses. I felt so left out all year, like I was missing being a part of something great. And I was. I rushed again next year and surprise surprise, only the new house would give me a bid as a sophomore. But this time I took it, and I absolutely love my house. Within just one year the girls in my house have worked so far to build a reputation, move from rock bottom to more in the middle, get a name on campus and recruit more amazing girls. And regardless of rank this experience was amazing, I love my sisters and my house and I only wish I had joined sooner. Yes it seems lame to go back to the house that seems to give a bid to anyone, but girls drop, disaffiliate, etc and weed out the girls who don’t mesh as well. Now we’re more selective because we have the ability to be. Being new is hard but it’s so worth it. I wouldn’t want to be in any other house and I’m so proud of my sisters, let yourself be surprised by how much a house can grow on you.