I can relate. My father gave me terrible anxiety issues. He too would involve me in his marital issues and I can even remember being in a position of knowing about an affair of his, and being put in an awful position between my mother and him. The things he would yell at me when he was just upset are things a daughter should never hear. “I wish you were never born”, “you’re stupid and you’ll never be anything in life but a sad street whore”. To just name a few. I was in a toxic relationship! With my father! This is the man I love most in the world and also the man who did me the most harm. But at this point in my life, about to graduate, living by myself, far from him.. I’ve realized something. Learning to not let the past with him bother me and get to me was the best thing I learned to do. I had a very fortunate life. I had so many things to be thankful for. And besides all the anxiety and emotional damage, he worked hard to put a roof on my head and provide comfort and stability to my family. I have to recognize that he made sacrifices for my family and I, and that he was there for me on occasions that I needed him. He wasn’t perfect. Hell far from it! But just like I can never forget the harm he caused me, I can’t forget the things he did for me. And neither should any of you. I know that realizing this helped me forgive and get through. Just my two cents here. 🙂
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I can relate. My father gave me terrible anxiety issues. He too would involve me in his marital issues and I can even remember being in a position of knowing about an affair of his, and being put in an awful position between my mother and him. The things he would yell at me when he was just upset are things a daughter should never hear. “I wish you were never born”, “you’re stupid and you’ll never be anything in life but a sad street whore”. To just name a few. I was in a toxic relationship! With my father! This is the man I love most in the world and also the man who did me the most harm. But at this point in my life, about to graduate, living by myself, far from him.. I’ve realized something. Learning to not let the past with him bother me and get to me was the best thing I learned to do. I had a very fortunate life. I had so many things to be thankful for. And besides all the anxiety and emotional damage, he worked hard to put a roof on my head and provide comfort and stability to my family. I have to recognize that he made sacrifices for my family and I, and that he was there for me on occasions that I needed him. He wasn’t perfect. Hell far from it! But just like I can never forget the harm he caused me, I can’t forget the things he did for me. And neither should any of you. I know that realizing this helped me forgive and get through. Just my two cents here. 🙂
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This is absolutely the worst thing I’ve ever read. Just horrible.