Doing something because of an ex is only bad if it’s holding you back! If you use that energy and fuel it into something positive, that’s the best way to do it! You go girl.
The difference between you and the “quirky girl” is that she doesn’t give a flying fuck what people think of her. She’s happy in her own right. You on the other hand clearly don’t like yourself, or you wouldn’t be spending so much time and effort trying to be something different. I always feel bad for girls like you. I hope you find your confidence and happiness one day, @PlattyBlonde
This is so true but the worst part about 1 and 3 is you just get into the habit. Like I get so used to searching an ex’s name I do it and end up on their page without even realizing I got there.
Look at everything but water. I have the same problem and it’s definitely pricey but you can find a good supportive fit that’s also cute. Also their employees are well trained for fit!
My personal theory, if you last 3-4 months and everything is still good and progressing forward, then if you really want it to be fbo, go for it. But chances are, people know you’re dating when you’re always together/posting pictures together. Nothing is more awkward than when 200 people “like” your new relationship and then are constantly asking you about it when you break up in a few months. I just think it’s best to test the waters before you announce it to the whole world.
Your dad is the first man to love you. Or unfortunately in many cases, hurt you. It’s very normal for a woman to relate romantic relationships to their dads. It’s not weird or kinky. We should be looking for that pure unconditional love that a father should give his daughter. And honestly, if my parents didn’t have an incredible marriage, I don’t know if I could believe in true love or know how to have a functional relationship. It makes me respect women who are children of divorce, or have messy relationships with their dads/parents that much more. I can’t imagine how hard it must be to have to overcome all that.
I can’t even bring myself to read this article because I am truly just that disgusted by a woman who knowingly gets involved with a man who is in a relationship. I am equally disgusted by a man who doesn’t have the balls or self respect to break up with his girlfriend/wife if he truly cannot remain faithful. Utterly repulsive.
I mean birth control isn’t 100% and I have a weird schedule and sometimes life just happens. It’s hard to take the pill every day at the same time. I’m a pretty OCD person but mess ups happen. I don’t trust guys enough to call me back let alone not impregnate me. I take the bc, you supply the condom. If you don’t have one that is too damn bad cause I can get off without your help. Even drunk me knows that the answer is always no if he doesn’t have one. I work way too hard to have an “accident” before I’m ready.
Honestly I used to 100% feel this way until my current boyfriend. The questioning your hygiene thing is so true I obsessively clean down there all the time. But he’s just good at it. I think a huge problem is many of us fake orgasms to get the guys to stop but then they think they’re actually good at things they’re not good at. It took some practice and some direction but once my boyfriend and I together figured out exactly what works, it’s amazing. But it does take work and practice and most guys are horrible at it
Idk I just feel like this stuff can happen anywhere. Apartment buildings, school, church, the gym, any other activities you do outside your job. Breakups are awkward and uncomfortable no matter where your relationship starts. And also I really believe in there being a line in your relationship of what is shared and what’s not. It seems like your ex crossed that line but I don’t know how well it was established while you two were together. I just feel like you can’t not date someone because you’re afraid of the breakup. Life is short. You’re gonna get hurt. Many times. And it sucks, but you’ll also get over it and you’ll be okay and you’ll find the right person. But you have to be open to people.
I feel like if someone assumes you can’t take care of yourself then they’re just an asshole. I completely see your point. I guess it depends on the intentions of who is acting “chivalrously.”
Chivalry is not actually sexist and doesn’t only define how to treat women. It’s a social code of considerate and courteous behavior to the people around you. People you like and don’t like. If you would like to interpret that as sexism then that’s you’re opinion but not the true definition.
Doing something because of an ex is only bad if it’s holding you back! If you use that energy and fuel it into something positive, that’s the best way to do it! You go girl.
The difference between you and the “quirky girl” is that she doesn’t give a flying fuck what people think of her. She’s happy in her own right. You on the other hand clearly don’t like yourself, or you wouldn’t be spending so much time and effort trying to be something different. I always feel bad for girls like you. I hope you find your confidence and happiness one day, @PlattyBlonde
This is so true but the worst part about 1 and 3 is you just get into the habit. Like I get so used to searching an ex’s name I do it and end up on their page without even realizing I got there.
Lol… no.
I could never love someone enough for that.
Look at everything but water. I have the same problem and it’s definitely pricey but you can find a good supportive fit that’s also cute. Also their employees are well trained for fit!
My personal theory, if you last 3-4 months and everything is still good and progressing forward, then if you really want it to be fbo, go for it. But chances are, people know you’re dating when you’re always together/posting pictures together. Nothing is more awkward than when 200 people “like” your new relationship and then are constantly asking you about it when you break up in a few months. I just think it’s best to test the waters before you announce it to the whole world.
Your dad is the first man to love you. Or unfortunately in many cases, hurt you. It’s very normal for a woman to relate romantic relationships to their dads. It’s not weird or kinky. We should be looking for that pure unconditional love that a father should give his daughter. And honestly, if my parents didn’t have an incredible marriage, I don’t know if I could believe in true love or know how to have a functional relationship. It makes me respect women who are children of divorce, or have messy relationships with their dads/parents that much more. I can’t imagine how hard it must be to have to overcome all that.
My chapter is obsessed with derby days and I’ve always hated it. We put more time and money into it than we do our own philanthropy events.
I don’t understand why TSM is obsessed with porn stars and what that has to do with sorority women.
I 100% agree. Oral is intimate. Your mouth is literally all over a guy’s genitals. That’s not casual.
I can’t even bring myself to read this article because I am truly just that disgusted by a woman who knowingly gets involved with a man who is in a relationship. I am equally disgusted by a man who doesn’t have the balls or self respect to break up with his girlfriend/wife if he truly cannot remain faithful. Utterly repulsive.
I mean birth control isn’t 100% and I have a weird schedule and sometimes life just happens. It’s hard to take the pill every day at the same time. I’m a pretty OCD person but mess ups happen. I don’t trust guys enough to call me back let alone not impregnate me. I take the bc, you supply the condom. If you don’t have one that is too damn bad cause I can get off without your help. Even drunk me knows that the answer is always no if he doesn’t have one. I work way too hard to have an “accident” before I’m ready.
Honestly I used to 100% feel this way until my current boyfriend. The questioning your hygiene thing is so true I obsessively clean down there all the time. But he’s just good at it. I think a huge problem is many of us fake orgasms to get the guys to stop but then they think they’re actually good at things they’re not good at. It took some practice and some direction but once my boyfriend and I together figured out exactly what works, it’s amazing. But it does take work and practice and most guys are horrible at it
Idk I just feel like this stuff can happen anywhere. Apartment buildings, school, church, the gym, any other activities you do outside your job. Breakups are awkward and uncomfortable no matter where your relationship starts. And also I really believe in there being a line in your relationship of what is shared and what’s not. It seems like your ex crossed that line but I don’t know how well it was established while you two were together. I just feel like you can’t not date someone because you’re afraid of the breakup. Life is short. You’re gonna get hurt. Many times. And it sucks, but you’ll also get over it and you’ll be okay and you’ll find the right person. But you have to be open to people.
With the exception of #5, those are all really stupid reasons not to give someone a shot.
Lol if there’s any question in your mind that it might be cheating… It is.
I think the one over the top text or the one fit falls under the “normal” category. We’ve all been there.
I feel like if someone assumes you can’t take care of yourself then they’re just an asshole. I completely see your point. I guess it depends on the intentions of who is acting “chivalrously.”
Chivalry is not actually sexist and doesn’t only define how to treat women. It’s a social code of considerate and courteous behavior to the people around you. People you like and don’t like. If you would like to interpret that as sexism then that’s you’re opinion but not the true definition.