Totally agree. I’m sorry you worked hard for your position but nowadays one has to be super responsible for their actions or that dream job will disappear. Life has consequences.
You’re acting like he’s going to be a bum all his life and won’t have a demanding job while you’re a CEO just because he’s in a small chapter and you’re in a big one. Stop with the condescending attitude towards your lonely boyfriend. I felt bad for both of you initially, now I just feel bad for him.
I love him and would ultimately choose him over an organization, if the choice was necessary. However, it isn’t fair for me either to half to apologize for being busy or needed just because he doesn’t understand it. I balance it quite well but it would be nice if he could appreciate all of my hard work since it means so much to me, or at least pretend to care. The bottom line is though, if he doesn’t support me in some little sorority business, will he in a long term actual job/position? That’s what this was about. I do respect all he does for his chapter regardless of their size, our experiences are just different.
So you showed up drunk to a meeting and think that means there’s a problem with the way standards works? They were absolutely right to call you in that’s totally inappropriate. Everyone shows up buzzed once or twice but there’s a line
Eh, not sure how I feel about this. It’s awesome how much you love your position and your sorority, but I completely understand where he’s coming from too. You started dating when you guys could spend a lot of time together and all of a sudden he feels neglected. That isn’t his fault or his small Greek life’s fault either. Don’t sacrifice your position, but don’t drag him along in the dirt, all the while calling him pretty mean names either. Personally, I’d spend time with my boyfriend over any type of sorority position. For you it seems the opposite and there’s nothing wrong with that at all. Just try to understand his side and maybe save him some misery and let him go. I don’t know the ins and outs of your relationship but it doesn’t sound particularly great for either of you.
My (ex)boyfriend and I were both philanthropy chairs at the same time, and he refused to do a joint philanthropy with us just because we were supposedly bottom tier, and he didn’t want to embarrass himself in front of his frat…
When the only answers to the political views question is conservative, uninformed, and blindly doing what your parents tell you to do… TSM promoting ignorance
That’s what I was thinking too. If she went to a top state school and he started off at a lower or middle tier state school then it’s not weird at all. Also she didn’t say anything about him even contacting her at all frosh year.
If anyone would like the full story, feel free to look at ADPi’s Facebook page or national website. The entire investigation is uploaded. I’m an ADPi, and I can 100% say that this wasn’t intensional, and someone just messed up and didn’t look at the design closely enough. This happens all the time with shirts guys…. Tell me your chapter hasn’t had something go unnoticed on a shirt before? Mine has had multiple typos that simply aren’t seen. Bottom line: the school didn’t approve the shirt, South by Sea didn’t notify the chapter that the shirt wasn’t approved, the shirt was printed any way because the chapter was unaware. Get off it because it was a simple case of miscommunication and oversight.
Totally agree. I’m sorry you worked hard for your position but nowadays one has to be super responsible for their actions or that dream job will disappear. Life has consequences.
You’re acting like he’s going to be a bum all his life and won’t have a demanding job while you’re a CEO just because he’s in a small chapter and you’re in a big one. Stop with the condescending attitude towards your lonely boyfriend. I felt bad for both of you initially, now I just feel bad for him.
I love him and would ultimately choose him over an organization, if the choice was necessary. However, it isn’t fair for me either to half to apologize for being busy or needed just because he doesn’t understand it. I balance it quite well but it would be nice if he could appreciate all of my hard work since it means so much to me, or at least pretend to care. The bottom line is though, if he doesn’t support me in some little sorority business, will he in a long term actual job/position? That’s what this was about. I do respect all he does for his chapter regardless of their size, our experiences are just different.
So you showed up drunk to a meeting and think that means there’s a problem with the way standards works? They were absolutely right to call you in that’s totally inappropriate. Everyone shows up buzzed once or twice but there’s a line
Eh, not sure how I feel about this. It’s awesome how much you love your position and your sorority, but I completely understand where he’s coming from too. You started dating when you guys could spend a lot of time together and all of a sudden he feels neglected. That isn’t his fault or his small Greek life’s fault either. Don’t sacrifice your position, but don’t drag him along in the dirt, all the while calling him pretty mean names either. Personally, I’d spend time with my boyfriend over any type of sorority position. For you it seems the opposite and there’s nothing wrong with that at all. Just try to understand his side and maybe save him some misery and let him go. I don’t know the ins and outs of your relationship but it doesn’t sound particularly great for either of you.
I like how ISU ADPi is in the picture
My (ex)boyfriend and I were both philanthropy chairs at the same time, and he refused to do a joint philanthropy with us just because we were supposedly bottom tier, and he didn’t want to embarrass himself in front of his frat…
UNM represent!
Nothing necessarily wrong with being a conservative, but definitely something wrong with ignoring any other intelligent options besides “I’m stupid”
When the only answers to the political views question is conservative, uninformed, and blindly doing what your parents tell you to do… TSM promoting ignorance
BDOGC
Extra…what? Or is using full sentences not ~cOoL~ anymore?
“Probably from all the kale” amazing
Hey, PlattyBlonde, who you are sucks.
That’s my best friend! Go best friend! ( it’s LIT(b))
So you’re admitting you’re an asshole?
I love all of your articles so much. I get excited every time I see a srat bro article featured on the insta
That’s what I was thinking too. If she went to a top state school and he started off at a lower or middle tier state school then it’s not weird at all. Also she didn’t say anything about him even contacting her at all frosh year.
My favorite part is where you take the food to go still. A woman after my own heart.
If anyone would like the full story, feel free to look at ADPi’s Facebook page or national website. The entire investigation is uploaded. I’m an ADPi, and I can 100% say that this wasn’t intensional, and someone just messed up and didn’t look at the design closely enough. This happens all the time with shirts guys…. Tell me your chapter hasn’t had something go unnoticed on a shirt before? Mine has had multiple typos that simply aren’t seen. Bottom line: the school didn’t approve the shirt, South by Sea didn’t notify the chapter that the shirt wasn’t approved, the shirt was printed any way because the chapter was unaware. Get off it because it was a simple case of miscommunication and oversight.