dautchy (Big)

From Kansas to Oklahoma, trading one small town for another, and known as that weird girl with the laugh.

Member Since 02/13/2015

From Oklahoma

  • dautchy 8 years ago on 15 Things That Annoy Bartenders According To Bartenders

    Guys who think they can sweet talk free drinks out of you. I’ve seen toilets broken in half and bathroom stall doors ripped off. People walking behind the bar or just climbing over it. Having a beer literally thrown in my face, beer poured down my back, and lit cigarettes tossed at me because I cut off or refused service. Getting in trouble for the minors drinking because the bouncer and door workers decided it was ok to let their friends drink. Tobacco spit on the bars. Vomit everywhere. The assumption that I’m a prostitute. Cheerleaders trying to stunt their way to the second level that’s private for the boss and his VIPs (nothing made me happier to see the flyer fall). I guy threatened to kill me over paper towels. I can’t think of anymore right now, just know that your bartender probably hates you if you’re an asshole in any manner.

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  • dautchy 8 years ago on I Love My Boyfriend But I Miss Being Single

    I mostly just miss alone time. I ran the single life for about five years and never talked to a guy for more than two months it seemed. Now I’m going on eight months with an amazing guy who I love so much and who treats me perfect. But the thing I miss the most is me, I think. I got super used to myself, depending on myself for everything including my own happiness, that now I don’t know how to share that sometimes. And I get frustrated with how a lot of things we do together feel like we’re only doing what he wants even though they’re things I’d probably be doing on my own anyway tbh. Idk, I just find this to be my hardest struggle, letting go of the idea of lonely me for the we that I’m starting to love. Really kind of silly lol.

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  • dautchy 8 years ago on Don't Stop Spoiling Your Little After Reveal

    My big and I didn’t connect and I guess she was really mad for a long time at me. Maybe she still is. We’re cool with each other but we don’t have any connection other than we belong to the same chapter of the same sorority.

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  • dautchy 9 years ago on Guess What? "Pulling Out" Works Just As Well As Condoms Because Everyone Lied To Us

    This is so far the only article that has ever offended me on this site full of bad ideas. And this is a HORRIBLE idea. Ladies, please use condoms. If it’s “too awkward” to use one, please pull up your britches and go home alone because acting like a child will probably result in one. And if the argument is that it doesn’t feel as good, the maybe you or your partner don’t know what you’re doing. AND, as it was stated before, umm… did we forget about STDs?

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