I have experienced something similar, too. I felt pressured into my first and only college relationship by the guy. He is guilty for pressuring me to date him and I am innocent for being naive and caving into the pressure. He is innocent for not knowing how I felt, and I am guilty for not telling him. There is shared blame here. He was the second guy I had ever had sex with, and of course I liked it. But there were times where I wasn’t in the mood and he would say something like “you never come on to me”; or there were times where it was obvious that it was hurting me but I he kept going and I never told him to stop, because I wanted to be a good girlfriend. I ended the relationship and I learned A LOT from it. I don’t feel traumatized by it, but sometimes it still bothers me. Great article, Hot Piece. 🙂 You’ve once again described my life with scary accuracy. Ladies lets keep talking and support each other so we can find solutions that work for all of us.
I have experienced something similar, too. I felt pressured into my first and only college relationship by the guy. He is guilty for pressuring me to date him and I am innocent for being naive and caving into the pressure. He is innocent for not knowing how I felt, and I am guilty for not telling him. There is shared blame here. He was the second guy I had ever had sex with, and of course I liked it. But there were times where I wasn’t in the mood and he would say something like “you never come on to me”; or there were times where it was obvious that it was hurting me but I he kept going and I never told him to stop, because I wanted to be a good girlfriend. I ended the relationship and I learned A LOT from it. I don’t feel traumatized by it, but sometimes it still bothers me. Great article, Hot Piece. 🙂 You’ve once again described my life with scary accuracy. Ladies lets keep talking and support each other so we can find solutions that work for all of us.
Gingers are less desirable? Funny I’m “the ginger” AND one of the top pullers in my house.
Yeah you’re not