KiraStevens (Big)

Member Since 10/15/2014

From Maryland

  • KiraStevens 9 years ago on What Guys Say Versus What They Actually Mean

    GUYS ARE CONFUSING OKAY. honestly I wish dating sites had like a google translator to decode secret messages that guys say to potential matches. I met a guy on Mesh, and honestly he was so so cute and I really liked him, and of course he had to ruin it and break one of my seting dealbreakers. like.. my luck right? Just gotta keep looking and decoding the messages myself I guess. That, and making my mesh profile just thaat much more specific so I don’t get dissappointed again. *weh*

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  • KiraStevens 9 years ago on Shittysingles.com Is The Dating Site Your Worst Friend Needs To Be On

    haaaaaahahhahaha i have so many friends I’d love to sign up for this site.. and a couple of the guys I’ve met on other dating sites wouldn’t hurt to try it out either ha. jerks. Luckily i haven’t run into that problem on Mesh yet. No shitty singles met thus far, seems mesh does a pretty good job keeping them away.

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  • KiraStevens 9 years ago on This Girl Pretended To Be Drunk In Public To See How Guys Would Respond, And EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. Tries To Take Her Home

    This absolutely disgusted me. This video should be shared over and over again just to prove to people that we are not kidding when we say that we, as women, are sexualized and taken advantage of daily. Creepy men like this and guys thinking they can do or say whatever they want are the reasons why dating and just being a woman in general is hard at times to be accepted as an equal or worthy of just HELP! I think the first step to creating a better, safer, world for women is to establish a more women-powered dating world where WE have the top priority to choose who can talk to us and who can try to take us home. I found a new dating site called meshbetter.com, and its completely woman-oriented and we have the control to block anyone who says anything inappropriate or uncomfortable. Mesh has ways of filtering conversations and setting dealbreakers so you can choose what is said to you and and who you interact with. It’s just a dating site.. but at least its a step closer toward ending terrifying situations like this video shows.

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  • KiraStevens 10 years ago on A Message To Men Everywhere: Let Us Pay

    times are changin’ and so are dating norms. i guess finding a guy who knows and goes with this change is hard. I’ve had a lot of issues with that because girls don’t seem to have a lot of “power” in the dating world as a whole. I found a dating site called Mesh, though. It’s really cool and I feel a lot more confident as a girl in the dating world and as an equal in paying for dates 🙂 just a fun fact

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  • KiraStevens 10 years ago on 26 Things All Boys Absolutely Love

    HAAA all of it’s so true. I won’t even deny it. I’ll have to put a warning on my mesh profile that majority of these things that guys “love” are totally accurate to me #LOVEMEFORMEBOYSSS

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  • KiraStevens 10 years ago on A Guy Explains How To Ruin A First Date

    LOLz situations like all of these potential (horrible) dates are the reason I’d much rather know exactly what I’m getting into before I go on a date… to avoid the whole.. people wanting a threesome thing (NOT THAT I’M JUDGING.. okay maybe a lil). I’ve gone through a couple of these rough date situations when meeting people from tinder and whatnot and the guys ended up being not exactly what i expected or just weird. BUT I started this new dating site meshbetter.com (fun fact) and I’ve had a lot more success with good dates that lack the awkward ex boyfriend talks and the… extra people hahaha. But I’m sure that those couples looking for a threesome would like mesh because there’s an option to specify that that’s what you’re looking for hahah.

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  • KiraStevens 10 years ago on Tinder: The Trashy Version Of Online Dating

    i cannot STAAAAND when guys on tinder act like they can say rude things or ask for “casual encounters” over apps or dating sites just because they’re behind a screen. I feel like (most) guys wouldn’t have the nerve to talk to a girl like that in person. I deleted my tinder just because of how annoyed I was and joined Meshbetter.com because it actually like filters out innappropriate words and things that could be offensive. You can even set what’s offensive to you and the conversation automatically gets cut off if they try to send the (what’s called) “dealbreaker.” Then they can’t keep annoyingly messaging you when you’re offended. soooooo much happier. bye bye jerks

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  • KiraStevens 10 years ago on Guy On OkCupid Loses His Shit After Being Ignored, Proves Men Are Actually The Crazy Ones

    I deleted my tinder because of crazy guys too!! Still have my okcupid though, I think I’m gonna delete it soon. You shouljd definitely check out Meshbetter.com though, it’s the only dating site that I haven’t had creepy guys or rude messages yet because the site has settings and ways to prevent stuff like that. No crazy guys and I definitely feel safer as a girl in the dating world haha. Girl… power? idk.

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  • KiraStevens 10 years ago on Wingman: Tinder At New (And Creepier) Heights

    What are the acutal chances you meet someone “romantically” and successfully on an airplane from an app? First tinder, which to me feels like just a bunch of creepy guys messaging girls non stop, now “wingman” where you’re in an enclosed area….(thousands of feet above the ground might I add). I feel like that could end up reaalllly good or just reaallly bad (90% of the time). The person could be a total CREEPO. That’s the reason why I avoid dating apps like Tinder and this new app, and stick to MeshBetter.com. It’s a cool website where you can actually meet people who aren’t just horny and rude. Literally they have a setting where you canset what’s a “dealbreaker” to you.. like being creepy, and if your conversation with a match leads to that.. it’s done. Pretty convenient. SO, say no to creeps.

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