Sorry but I totally disagree lol I’ve been told multiple times I’m “chill” and I don’t try to be like that. I hang out with my boyfriends fraternity brothers and I genuinely enjoy drinking beer and smoking weed. I hate attention because most of the time, generally, any attention a girl gets from guys or other girls is negative. I’m not into drama or bs, and the guys like hanging out with “chill” girls because they don’t have to worry about impressing them because we don’t care, and they don’t have to worry about them getting too drunk or too high because they know they can hold their shit. There’s nothing wrong with being “chill” or not, just don’t hate if you’re not
It’s a grey area, but he consented by getting a condom. If he wants to be safe, in the future he should just say, “hey is it okay to get a condom?” and wait until she tells him yes, before he does. Stop bitching and be part of the solution.
Wow you dudes on here just love defending “rape-ey” actions, don’t you? Oh wait, let’s talk about all the legal loopholes instead of the fact that this guy had sex with someone who didn’t want it AT THE TIME IT WAS HAPPENING! She didn’t wake up the next day, like “wow that was dumb” and regret it. She knew in the moment it wasn’t okay and he didn’t stop to verify. You use a debit/credit card and have to enter a pin or sign to verify before using it, right? Guess who that protects? The merchant (i.e. the chick in this metaphor) and YOU the card-owner! Does it mean all card owners are committing fraud? No, but some asshole did and now we all have to be extra careful. That’s not a double standard, that’s called risk management. You just can’t be bothered to verify a chick wants sex before you put your dick in her? Ya, what a drag and inconvenience for you.
Look, I’m not saying men don’t bear some burden, but really if this story were flipped and some drunk girl put her finger or anything else in your butt and you were drunk and just ignored it because addressing it would be more awkward but secretly were disgusted, you’d be like, “ya i really wish she would have asked before she put something in my butt”. Rape isn’t about how to use the law to your advantage, it’s about human decency and respect. If you want to take some chick to court because she’s puts a finger in you’re butt, I’m cool with that. Technically, that’s rape. But most likely, you will feel, much like this girl did, that it wasn’t worth the hassle and awkwardness to even confront her about it, despite what the law says was or wasn’t legal. That said, next time all parties should just ask, right?
such BS. Look it’s pretty simple: if the girl’s really wasted then yes, it’s the responsibility of the dude to make damn well sure that she’s DTF. And if she’s not, it’s on him because it really shouldn’t be that hard to figure it out. “You’re so hot, I want you, do you want me?”…dead silence? Probably no, she doesn’t want you, chump.
It’s really not that much to ask to make sure that before you put your dick in something, the other party enthusiastically wants it too. That’s not a double standard, that’s being careful, for both parties, so that nothing gets weird later.
You want to be equal? Aw that’s cute. For the rest of your life these men will on average make more then you, have all the social luxuries in life that men get at the expense of women (read the book Lean In), never be slut shamed, have to bear children, never have to worry about HPV even though they spread it around, etc. I think they can deal, with having one small extra burden in life by asking a drunk chick if she’s DTF before taking liberties. Cry me a fucking river.
I can 100% vouch for this
Sorry but I totally disagree lol I’ve been told multiple times I’m “chill” and I don’t try to be like that. I hang out with my boyfriends fraternity brothers and I genuinely enjoy drinking beer and smoking weed. I hate attention because most of the time, generally, any attention a girl gets from guys or other girls is negative. I’m not into drama or bs, and the guys like hanging out with “chill” girls because they don’t have to worry about impressing them because we don’t care, and they don’t have to worry about them getting too drunk or too high because they know they can hold their shit. There’s nothing wrong with being “chill” or not, just don’t hate if you’re not
And when you’re 40 and dated a series of losers that treated you bad, “why am I still single?”
And then you hate men when they treat you bad. Like they say, easy come, easy go.
I guess if you wanna marry a girl that used to be a dumpster then you need to expect a little trash.
These are hilarious. The JB and Lizzie McGuire ones are hilarious omg
Kylie….no girl, just no
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shut the fuck up you ugly garbage cunt
Literally dead …. jersey shore alone us hilarious but this is iconic
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I thought about the getting caught thing. Might change my name.
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The amount of malapropism in this article is distracting
or she’s watering it down because she was raped and doesn’t want to feel like a victim.
Wow, kudos! Pretty much the only man on here to get it right! Thanks
It’s a grey area, but he consented by getting a condom. If he wants to be safe, in the future he should just say, “hey is it okay to get a condom?” and wait until she tells him yes, before he does. Stop bitching and be part of the solution.
Wow you dudes on here just love defending “rape-ey” actions, don’t you? Oh wait, let’s talk about all the legal loopholes instead of the fact that this guy had sex with someone who didn’t want it AT THE TIME IT WAS HAPPENING! She didn’t wake up the next day, like “wow that was dumb” and regret it. She knew in the moment it wasn’t okay and he didn’t stop to verify. You use a debit/credit card and have to enter a pin or sign to verify before using it, right? Guess who that protects? The merchant (i.e. the chick in this metaphor) and YOU the card-owner! Does it mean all card owners are committing fraud? No, but some asshole did and now we all have to be extra careful. That’s not a double standard, that’s called risk management. You just can’t be bothered to verify a chick wants sex before you put your dick in her? Ya, what a drag and inconvenience for you.
Look, I’m not saying men don’t bear some burden, but really if this story were flipped and some drunk girl put her finger or anything else in your butt and you were drunk and just ignored it because addressing it would be more awkward but secretly were disgusted, you’d be like, “ya i really wish she would have asked before she put something in my butt”. Rape isn’t about how to use the law to your advantage, it’s about human decency and respect. If you want to take some chick to court because she’s puts a finger in you’re butt, I’m cool with that. Technically, that’s rape. But most likely, you will feel, much like this girl did, that it wasn’t worth the hassle and awkwardness to even confront her about it, despite what the law says was or wasn’t legal. That said, next time all parties should just ask, right?
such BS. Look it’s pretty simple: if the girl’s really wasted then yes, it’s the responsibility of the dude to make damn well sure that she’s DTF. And if she’s not, it’s on him because it really shouldn’t be that hard to figure it out. “You’re so hot, I want you, do you want me?”…dead silence? Probably no, she doesn’t want you, chump.
It’s really not that much to ask to make sure that before you put your dick in something, the other party enthusiastically wants it too. That’s not a double standard, that’s being careful, for both parties, so that nothing gets weird later.
You want to be equal? Aw that’s cute. For the rest of your life these men will on average make more then you, have all the social luxuries in life that men get at the expense of women (read the book Lean In), never be slut shamed, have to bear children, never have to worry about HPV even though they spread it around, etc. I think they can deal, with having one small extra burden in life by asking a drunk chick if she’s DTF before taking liberties. Cry me a fucking river.