Thanks so much for responding to me! That actually makes a lot of sense. I’m still at the very beginning of my recovery so my goal is to just eat something and restore some of my weight. I’m trying to not think in terms of healthy or unhealthy because of what it inevitably leads to. But, I can totally understand that you’re much farther into your recovery journey and you’re able to reintroduce those concepts back into your life because you trust that it won’t lead to a path of destruction.
Now that I think about it, that’s actually awesome. I really hope you’re able to achieve your goals and come out of this feeling happier and more fulfilled. Good luck!
I love them from my boyfriend (long distance). There is truly nothing as terrifying and disturbing as an unsolicited dick pic from a stranger or guy you don’t like, though.
Great question. The answer is that it’s a little bit of both. I have decided to start living a more healthy lifestyle because honestly — I’m not healthy right now. While I took an over-the-top, satirical approach to this (I’m not quite as vain as it seems up there and no, I’m not just doing this to “be a hot girl”), the truth is I’m tired of treating my body like shit. But writing an “I’m getting healthy for me” article can be found on any random girl’s fitness blog.
I wanted to show humor in myself and my journey because if I can’t laugh at myself for being unable to do the amount of crunches I used to be able to do then, well, it’s depressing.
As someone who also battled anorexia (and bulimia), I get the struggle. I’ve struggled with my weight for as long as I can remember. The point is: I owe it to myself to start treating my body with respect. Not because I want to be “hot” (but getting some killer confidence wouldn’t be horrible) but because we only have so much time on this Earth. And I want to do everything I can to make sure that I not only get as much time as I can, but I’m able to use it to its fullest.
That means, not only getting “hot” or whatever, but it means doing it the right way. I’ve gone down the unhealthy path of eating disorders and I know how much damage that did to my body. Congrats to you for pulling yourself out of that hole as well — it takes immense strength and willpower.
I guess the thing is — if I could do that, I could go from being addicted to getting “skinny” the wrong way, and come out of that with clarity and perseverance, I have the strength to make my body healthy. To make my body strong and powerful and reliable.
I don’t need to be “hot” to be happy. I’ve long since accepted my build, my body, and my expectations for myself. I’ll never be a “skinny” girl. I’m not built like that and I love pizza too much for that. But I think being healthy would give me the confidence, energy, and fulfillment that I crave.
See? That answer isn’t as funny, but it’s the backstory. Hope it clears things up!
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I honestly can’t tell if this is satire or not as there is usually some blatant hyperbole that gives it away. Why did you suddenly change your mind? I’m currently recovering-ish from anorexia and I read a lot of your columns because I found them inspiring without being indulgent. I’m just surprised that you would abandon a point of view that I think set you apart from other TSM writers.
Love this article! With society being so obsessed with “loving yourself,” the “real” you, (which definitely isn’t a bad thing in moderation) as well as all the PC bs we have to deal with, sometimes society almost seems like a bad thing to want to be skinnier/prettier/trendier. Sure maybe it’s kinda superficial, but it’s still what a lot of girls want, and I think even though this is a funny article on tsm, it’s still nice for us to hear that other people still have the same thought process of wanting to be the “hot girl.” There’s honestly nothing wrong with that, or any other type of self-improvement, especially when those lifestyle changes should also lead to better health!
I’ve been trying to work out more. And after reading this I’m gonna make it my goal too. Come spring break I’ll be ready to be almost completely naked 24/7
As a guy, I’ve never been threatened by another dudes dick..
Tbh Kanye probably wouldn’t have cared
Thanks so much for responding to me! That actually makes a lot of sense. I’m still at the very beginning of my recovery so my goal is to just eat something and restore some of my weight. I’m trying to not think in terms of healthy or unhealthy because of what it inevitably leads to. But, I can totally understand that you’re much farther into your recovery journey and you’re able to reintroduce those concepts back into your life because you trust that it won’t lead to a path of destruction.
Now that I think about it, that’s actually awesome. I really hope you’re able to achieve your goals and come out of this feeling happier and more fulfilled. Good luck!
Agreed. It’s much better to be the girl holding everyone’s purses than the girl who’s missing her front tooth.
I’m never dancing on an elevated surface again
I love them from my boyfriend (long distance). There is truly nothing as terrifying and disturbing as an unsolicited dick pic from a stranger or guy you don’t like, though.
Seriously love your articles esp the Harry Potter ones
I don’t hate this idea
I feel like this is going to lead to many instances of “who wants to get hammered and jump in the ball pit?” Or maybe that’s just what I would do.
Hi there,
Great question. The answer is that it’s a little bit of both. I have decided to start living a more healthy lifestyle because honestly — I’m not healthy right now. While I took an over-the-top, satirical approach to this (I’m not quite as vain as it seems up there and no, I’m not just doing this to “be a hot girl”), the truth is I’m tired of treating my body like shit. But writing an “I’m getting healthy for me” article can be found on any random girl’s fitness blog.
I wanted to show humor in myself and my journey because if I can’t laugh at myself for being unable to do the amount of crunches I used to be able to do then, well, it’s depressing.
As someone who also battled anorexia (and bulimia), I get the struggle. I’ve struggled with my weight for as long as I can remember. The point is: I owe it to myself to start treating my body with respect. Not because I want to be “hot” (but getting some killer confidence wouldn’t be horrible) but because we only have so much time on this Earth. And I want to do everything I can to make sure that I not only get as much time as I can, but I’m able to use it to its fullest.
That means, not only getting “hot” or whatever, but it means doing it the right way. I’ve gone down the unhealthy path of eating disorders and I know how much damage that did to my body. Congrats to you for pulling yourself out of that hole as well — it takes immense strength and willpower.
I guess the thing is — if I could do that, I could go from being addicted to getting “skinny” the wrong way, and come out of that with clarity and perseverance, I have the strength to make my body healthy. To make my body strong and powerful and reliable.
I don’t need to be “hot” to be happy. I’ve long since accepted my build, my body, and my expectations for myself. I’ll never be a “skinny” girl. I’m not built like that and I love pizza too much for that. But I think being healthy would give me the confidence, energy, and fulfillment that I crave.
See? That answer isn’t as funny, but it’s the backstory. Hope it clears things up!
Working out in the gym is not equal to having sex…
You go girl!!
It’s like you can read my mind
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They taste very earthy. Hate them.
I honestly can’t tell if this is satire or not as there is usually some blatant hyperbole that gives it away. Why did you suddenly change your mind? I’m currently recovering-ish from anorexia and I read a lot of your columns because I found them inspiring without being indulgent. I’m just surprised that you would abandon a point of view that I think set you apart from other TSM writers.
Love this article! With society being so obsessed with “loving yourself,” the “real” you, (which definitely isn’t a bad thing in moderation) as well as all the PC bs we have to deal with, sometimes society almost seems like a bad thing to want to be skinnier/prettier/trendier. Sure maybe it’s kinda superficial, but it’s still what a lot of girls want, and I think even though this is a funny article on tsm, it’s still nice for us to hear that other people still have the same thought process of wanting to be the “hot girl.” There’s honestly nothing wrong with that, or any other type of self-improvement, especially when those lifestyle changes should also lead to better health!
I’ve been trying to work out more. And after reading this I’m gonna make it my goal too. Come spring break I’ll be ready to be almost completely naked 24/7
I’m not the only one!
fyi season three is on demand rn – i just got done marathoning it again