Had a guy who honestly was very nice to me when I dated him. I broke up with him because I didn’t see a future. He started sending me death threats, broke the windows on my car, and then snuck into my house while everyone was gone and put a case of flowers in my room to say sorry. So creepy! I had to put a restraining order on him. Definitely in the Spawn of Satan category.
You do realize that you can be sexually assaulted without being raped right? Or do you think that the only way a girl can be assaulted is through rape? The one in four includes being sexually assaulted without penetration, and as a college student who was assaulted, I can tell you that the statistic is probably spot on. I meet so many women in my support groups who won’t come forward because people like you will vilify them and say that they are liars or whores. More people assault if they think people won’t believe the victim.
Well, there’s also the fact that the guy could have just been saying that to paint the gf in a terrible light. He could be the psycho one who is lying, which seems likely since
I really don’t think that they meant it as in “if someone is being mean, call us.” I think what it meant was “if someone is verbally harassing you, call us.” If someone is screaming and cussing at me about my race, guess what, I probably will call the cops because that is harassment and intimidation, and I shouldn’t have to stand around while racists try and scream me out of the school.
I have had a boyfriend who was addicted to porn and would never be able to have sex with me because he jacked off to much. It’s like anything, we need to make sure it doesn’t control our lives:-)
guys need to understand that no does not mean try harder to make me have sex with you, it means no. It doesn’t mean let me coerce you and make you extremely uncomfortable. Also, lack of consent does not mean yes, something that also needs to be addressed. I was molested when I was younger for 10 years. I stopped saying no. I knew it was going to happen no matter what I did, so sometimes I said yes in order to get the pain over with quicker. I definitely wouldn’t say that was consent since I was coerced into it.
Our values aren’t worthless. I know many alumni members who still respect our values and follow them in their day to day lives post college. It is really insulting that you call them worthless and it shows how little you know about sororities and their purpose.
In my sorority, anything with our sorority name on it must represent our chapters ideals. I personally would be offended if my letters were on a sign that basically says we are all easy. It gives the sorority a bad reputation.
I went to college, still had fun and partied, yet I never was one of the shitfaced girls. I stayed with the same boyfriend as I had in HS, and got engaged to him. I only slept with one guy, him. I never felt the need to sow my wild oats, and don’t regret it. Some girls need to and some don’t. We shouldn’t push it on other people.
However, this chapter has been suspected of sexual misconduct before, and a rape was reported to have happened there. With all that in mind, it really needs to be disbanded.
I honestly hope they are expelled. People like that are the reason Greek life is portrayed so badly and we as Greeks need to stand up against this. We should be pushing for them to lose their charter since they clearly violate what fraternities and sororities are truly about. Rape is never a joke.
Had a guy who honestly was very nice to me when I dated him. I broke up with him because I didn’t see a future. He started sending me death threats, broke the windows on my car, and then snuck into my house while everyone was gone and put a case of flowers in my room to say sorry. So creepy! I had to put a restraining order on him. Definitely in the Spawn of Satan category.
Not when I already pay for half of my dates. And guess what? My mom had a job along with my dad, and my future career pays more than my fiancées. Maybe someone is living in the Stone Age? Or maybe wants to so they can be a chauvinistic pig?
You do realize that you can be sexually assaulted without being raped right? Or do you think that the only way a girl can be assaulted is through rape? The one in four includes being sexually assaulted without penetration, and as a college student who was assaulted, I can tell you that the statistic is probably spot on. I meet so many women in my support groups who won’t come forward because people like you will vilify them and say that they are liars or whores. More people assault if they think people won’t believe the victim.
Well, there’s also the fact that the guy could have just been saying that to paint the gf in a terrible light. He could be the psycho one who is lying, which seems likely since
If I had them as sisters, I definitely wouldn’t want them there!
They aren’t saying arrest them, but they should never be allowed back on campus again.
I really don’t think that they meant it as in “if someone is being mean, call us.” I think what it meant was “if someone is verbally harassing you, call us.” If someone is screaming and cussing at me about my race, guess what, I probably will call the cops because that is harassment and intimidation, and I shouldn’t have to stand around while racists try and scream me out of the school.
When she was calling it a choice, I think she was saying that at some point, you choose to stay with them instead of leaving. You choose to make it work instead of giving up. Love is more than emotions. My fiancĂ© and I have been together for 6 years. I would be lying if I said every day I have felt in love. There are hard times when I choose to love him instead of viewing it as “I don’t feel in love so he must not be the one.” It’s a choice to really truly love someone, through good times and bad, especially the bad. Psycho exes aren’t in that type of love, they just are feeding off of their own emotions, and emotions don’t mean you love someone, it means your emotional.
I have had a boyfriend who was addicted to porn and would never be able to have sex with me because he jacked off to much. It’s like anything, we need to make sure it doesn’t control our lives:-)
I don’t want to sound dumb, but what is a house boy?
This will be me at 80
guys need to understand that no does not mean try harder to make me have sex with you, it means no. It doesn’t mean let me coerce you and make you extremely uncomfortable. Also, lack of consent does not mean yes, something that also needs to be addressed. I was molested when I was younger for 10 years. I stopped saying no. I knew it was going to happen no matter what I did, so sometimes I said yes in order to get the pain over with quicker. I definitely wouldn’t say that was consent since I was coerced into it.
Our values aren’t worthless. I know many alumni members who still respect our values and follow them in their day to day lives post college. It is really insulting that you call them worthless and it shows how little you know about sororities and their purpose.
So our sorority should throw away their values in order to win a competition? That’s kinda sad that we are expected to do that.
In my sorority, anything with our sorority name on it must represent our chapters ideals. I personally would be offended if my letters were on a sign that basically says we are all easy. It gives the sorority a bad reputation.
Never could be prouder of the letters I wear:-)
Or when she switched schools, the chapter she was in was top tier and she got to join it since she was already in it.
I went to college, still had fun and partied, yet I never was one of the shitfaced girls. I stayed with the same boyfriend as I had in HS, and got engaged to him. I only slept with one guy, him. I never felt the need to sow my wild oats, and don’t regret it. Some girls need to and some don’t. We shouldn’t push it on other people.
However, this chapter has been suspected of sexual misconduct before, and a rape was reported to have happened there. With all that in mind, it really needs to be disbanded.
I honestly hope they are expelled. People like that are the reason Greek life is portrayed so badly and we as Greeks need to stand up against this. We should be pushing for them to lose their charter since they clearly violate what fraternities and sororities are truly about. Rape is never a joke.