I don’t think there’s anything wrong with not wanting a relationship or wanting to just have fun and fuck around. What I do think is wrong, for both guys and girls, is the lack of honesty involved. Don’t fucking lie. What’s really getting you off here clearly isn’t this guy’s oral abilities but the high you get from being deceptive. There are clearly plenty of people who want a casual, let’s just fuck sort of thing. Y’all need to go find each other instead of screwing with innocent people’s emotions.
I can see your point, but I think the school is trying to be proactive and avoid a potentially dangerous situation. Perhaps it is a little over the top, but I know if I were a student there or knew people there, I’d be thankful knowing that I was safe and that the safety of everyone at the school is a top priority
While I agree to your point that just because you don’t speak up doesn’t make you a racist, I can’t agree with your stance on Tim Wolfe. He did not handle this outbreak well at all. Rather than engage with students and try to figure out a solution, he literally did nothing. That does not make for a fit leader. The state of Missouri as a whole has been under fire for racism over the past year or so and it needs as many strong people in leadership roles as possible to eradicate the problems.
A similar thing happened to me and I did forgive her over time, but she ended up still hurting me time and time again. Her and I have finally cut ties and I couldn’t be happier. It’s sad to lose a friend but at the same time my life is much easier not worrying about her backstabbing
I completely understand where you’re coming from. My small breasts always made me incredibly insecure and eventually got a breast augmentation. I’m now sitting pretty with D cups and it certainly makes me feel so much more feminine and sexy.
I agree. As a teacher, there are tons of things I wish I could say and do to students who are disrespectful, but I don’t. As funny as it is and as much as I’d love to do something like this, you need to act professional.
I’m sympathetic, but seriously? If he’s that bad dump him. Being single is not a bad thing. It’s far better than crying your eyes out over a guy who sounds like he could care less about you.
Seriously why are you getting so bent out of shape because you’re being told you’re cute? It’s generally considered a term of endearment. Yes, I get wanting to look sexy and all of that, but perhaps you should worry a little less about how cute you look and instead focus on being smart or funny or any other more important qualities.
Overall, I don’t think the world is black and white. There is a ton of grey area. Now where one person can experience something awful and traumatic, there are certainly different extremes of it. In terms of the article this one was inspired by, I think she certainly went through a horrible time and would never wish that upon anyone. But there are also people who were drugged, violently held down, etc who did not, at any time, have the option or ability to walk away or escape or not return. Now I understand there was certainly a strong psychological and emotional component to the original story that compelled this girl to stay and return time after time, there is still a difference in her experience and many other rape victim’s experiences. Being held down, drugged, yelled at and truly afraid of your life should not be looked at the same as being afraid to lose a loved one. Yes, both horrible experiences, but ultimately very different.
This article was very hard to read. It certainly reminded me of my own rape experience, despite that fact that mine was entirely different. While I do sympathize for this poor girl and do believe she was sexually assaulted or at the very least sexually exploited, I do just have a hard time getting over how she continuously put herself into this situation. I am not trying to victim blame by any means and sincerely hope this girl is able to heal and find a better guy. I also hope she has developed a strong support system to help keep her from becoming so dependent on toxic men in the future. I truly hope the best for this girl, but this whole story, for multiple reasons, bothers me very much.
The idea of bottom tier and top tier just really need to stop. We are values based organizations and what a chapters values are and what an individual PNMs values are is what should determine giving and accepting a bid. As active members we need to strive to end these stereotypes.
As a former recruitment chair I understand wanting to look amazing and all of that but as a Panhellenic woman I don’t get the need to add so many scenes of girls in bikinis. Recruitment is supposed to be about values. Getting new women to join based off sharing the same values and what exactly does wearing bikinis say about our values.
I also grew up fairly wealthy and privileged and I am by no means ashamed of that. My parents, now didn’t pay entirely for my education, but paid for more than half of it thankfully. I worked all throughout school to not only help pay for my education, but for the fun things in college as well. I feel as if you have a slightly skewed work ethic and sense of priority if at 20 years old you expect your parents to not only fund your education, but your sorority life, drinking habits, shopping, etc. I’ve had a job since the time I was 15 even though my parents could afford not only my basic needs but anything I may have wanted to do too. Having a job isn’t just about making a few bucks. It teaches you a sense of independence, financial responsibility, and numerous other things as well.
I think we can all agree that Nikki’s comment was really just unnecessary. While anaconda is a solid song to listen to while on the treadmill or when I’m downing shots of fireball, it really is not some amazing song with deeper meaning. It’s a party song simple as that. And bad blood isn’t much better. Yes I’m sure TSwift was stabbed in the back by a friend but if her track record with friends is similar to her track record with men it’s a safe bet that the relationship that developed between me and the roommate I had for the first 2 weeks of college has more meaning that Taylor and her frenemy. Basically Nikki needs to learn just because you make a catchy song and flashy video does warrant awards and Taylor just needs to stop butting in other people’s lives. They’re both grown women and need to start acting like it rather than the petty Gretchens and Reginas of the world.
Why would you want that broadcasted? My chapter has done some stupid shit and I’m so relieved it’s not on here. I don’t want us to bg know as the sorority that fucked up
I think every relationship is different. I have had/currently have “sugar daddies” and in all of those relationships it’s always been more than just sex. These men have always seemed to care about me at more than just a physical level. Yes most of these men aren’t attracted to women their own age but I don’t see why there’s anything wrong with that. They find a woman in her 20s exciting just like me a woman in her 20s finds an older man exciting because of the things I can do with them that guys my own age can’t provide me with.
This article isn’t about not liking her music it’s about not liking her as a celebrity. Everyone’s entitled to their own opinion, but I will never understand why she’s considered such a feminist. Some of her most notable songs include singing about being a diva, getting laid in the back of a limo, and having a great ass. I understand she’s got numerous other songs under her belt, but I don’t get how you can say you’re all about women’s rights when you’ve got a song lyric that demeans another woman(“Monica Lewinski all on my blouse”). She’s an incredibly talented and beautiful woman but is just as self-absorbed and annoying as just about every other celebrity out there.
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with not wanting a relationship or wanting to just have fun and fuck around. What I do think is wrong, for both guys and girls, is the lack of honesty involved. Don’t fucking lie. What’s really getting you off here clearly isn’t this guy’s oral abilities but the high you get from being deceptive. There are clearly plenty of people who want a casual, let’s just fuck sort of thing. Y’all need to go find each other instead of screwing with innocent people’s emotions.
THIS IS A SATIRE!!!!
They’re not getting political here, they’re just trying to explain something that is important and could impact all of us as women.
I can see your point, but I think the school is trying to be proactive and avoid a potentially dangerous situation. Perhaps it is a little over the top, but I know if I were a student there or knew people there, I’d be thankful knowing that I was safe and that the safety of everyone at the school is a top priority
While I agree to your point that just because you don’t speak up doesn’t make you a racist, I can’t agree with your stance on Tim Wolfe. He did not handle this outbreak well at all. Rather than engage with students and try to figure out a solution, he literally did nothing. That does not make for a fit leader. The state of Missouri as a whole has been under fire for racism over the past year or so and it needs as many strong people in leadership roles as possible to eradicate the problems.
A similar thing happened to me and I did forgive her over time, but she ended up still hurting me time and time again. Her and I have finally cut ties and I couldn’t be happier. It’s sad to lose a friend but at the same time my life is much easier not worrying about her backstabbing
I completely understand where you’re coming from. My small breasts always made me incredibly insecure and eventually got a breast augmentation. I’m now sitting pretty with D cups and it certainly makes me feel so much more feminine and sexy.
I agree. As a teacher, there are tons of things I wish I could say and do to students who are disrespectful, but I don’t. As funny as it is and as much as I’d love to do something like this, you need to act professional.
I’m sympathetic, but seriously? If he’s that bad dump him. Being single is not a bad thing. It’s far better than crying your eyes out over a guy who sounds like he could care less about you.
Seriously why are you getting so bent out of shape because you’re being told you’re cute? It’s generally considered a term of endearment. Yes, I get wanting to look sexy and all of that, but perhaps you should worry a little less about how cute you look and instead focus on being smart or funny or any other more important qualities.
Overall, I don’t think the world is black and white. There is a ton of grey area. Now where one person can experience something awful and traumatic, there are certainly different extremes of it. In terms of the article this one was inspired by, I think she certainly went through a horrible time and would never wish that upon anyone. But there are also people who were drugged, violently held down, etc who did not, at any time, have the option or ability to walk away or escape or not return. Now I understand there was certainly a strong psychological and emotional component to the original story that compelled this girl to stay and return time after time, there is still a difference in her experience and many other rape victim’s experiences. Being held down, drugged, yelled at and truly afraid of your life should not be looked at the same as being afraid to lose a loved one. Yes, both horrible experiences, but ultimately very different.
This article was very hard to read. It certainly reminded me of my own rape experience, despite that fact that mine was entirely different. While I do sympathize for this poor girl and do believe she was sexually assaulted or at the very least sexually exploited, I do just have a hard time getting over how she continuously put herself into this situation. I am not trying to victim blame by any means and sincerely hope this girl is able to heal and find a better guy. I also hope she has developed a strong support system to help keep her from becoming so dependent on toxic men in the future. I truly hope the best for this girl, but this whole story, for multiple reasons, bothers me very much.
The idea of bottom tier and top tier just really need to stop. We are values based organizations and what a chapters values are and what an individual PNMs values are is what should determine giving and accepting a bid. As active members we need to strive to end these stereotypes.
As a former recruitment chair I understand wanting to look amazing and all of that but as a Panhellenic woman I don’t get the need to add so many scenes of girls in bikinis. Recruitment is supposed to be about values. Getting new women to join based off sharing the same values and what exactly does wearing bikinis say about our values.
I also grew up fairly wealthy and privileged and I am by no means ashamed of that. My parents, now didn’t pay entirely for my education, but paid for more than half of it thankfully. I worked all throughout school to not only help pay for my education, but for the fun things in college as well. I feel as if you have a slightly skewed work ethic and sense of priority if at 20 years old you expect your parents to not only fund your education, but your sorority life, drinking habits, shopping, etc. I’ve had a job since the time I was 15 even though my parents could afford not only my basic needs but anything I may have wanted to do too. Having a job isn’t just about making a few bucks. It teaches you a sense of independence, financial responsibility, and numerous other things as well.
I think we can all agree that Nikki’s comment was really just unnecessary. While anaconda is a solid song to listen to while on the treadmill or when I’m downing shots of fireball, it really is not some amazing song with deeper meaning. It’s a party song simple as that. And bad blood isn’t much better. Yes I’m sure TSwift was stabbed in the back by a friend but if her track record with friends is similar to her track record with men it’s a safe bet that the relationship that developed between me and the roommate I had for the first 2 weeks of college has more meaning that Taylor and her frenemy. Basically Nikki needs to learn just because you make a catchy song and flashy video does warrant awards and Taylor just needs to stop butting in other people’s lives. They’re both grown women and need to start acting like it rather than the petty Gretchens and Reginas of the world.
Why would you want that broadcasted? My chapter has done some stupid shit and I’m so relieved it’s not on here. I don’t want us to bg know as the sorority that fucked up
I think every relationship is different. I have had/currently have “sugar daddies” and in all of those relationships it’s always been more than just sex. These men have always seemed to care about me at more than just a physical level. Yes most of these men aren’t attracted to women their own age but I don’t see why there’s anything wrong with that. They find a woman in her 20s exciting just like me a woman in her 20s finds an older man exciting because of the things I can do with them that guys my own age can’t provide me with.
If my boyfriend ever proposed to me at someone else’s wedding I’d say no as soon as he got down on one knee. He’s clearly an idiot with awful timing.
This article isn’t about not liking her music it’s about not liking her as a celebrity. Everyone’s entitled to their own opinion, but I will never understand why she’s considered such a feminist. Some of her most notable songs include singing about being a diva, getting laid in the back of a limo, and having a great ass. I understand she’s got numerous other songs under her belt, but I don’t get how you can say you’re all about women’s rights when you’ve got a song lyric that demeans another woman(“Monica Lewinski all on my blouse”). She’s an incredibly talented and beautiful woman but is just as self-absorbed and annoying as just about every other celebrity out there.