My best friend and I both joined our sorority in winter of junior year because we were tranfers. It was good and bad: it was smaller and we met the girls in a more relaxed atmosphere, which was good, but we missed out on meeting the other sororities because ours put a good effort to woo us. Greek life is small at my school so nearly everyone had open winter which leads to the bad: our pledge class included a girl who desperately wanted the hottie/Stepford sorority but they’d turned down her suicide bids twice before and she was wised up enough to know that her only possible way into top – tier was winter open. There was no fair way to turn her (or me or my bf) down. If I’d have been a freshman, I would have chosen differently because I would have gone through a true recruitment.
What would count as a fat bottomed girl? Is it strictly an ass thing or is the entire trunk taken into consideration? I think you’re being too hard on yourself.
Second semester recruitment is a nightmare at my chapter. We had one girl who had gone through recruitment twice trying to get into my sorority and who was dropped both times because she completely didn’t fit. Come spring recruitment the second year – there she is at the front door and because we needed numbers and there was no real reason to turn her away, she was in. Ugh.
I had a best friend breakup (with one of my sorority sisters, actually) and it was the worst experience of my life. I was at a REALLY low point in my life and she threw me away because she said she wanted a leadership position in our sorority and I made her look bad. I can look back now and see that we were really just two lonely people who had nothing in common but it still hurt. Just tossed away like a piece of garbage…
I said all of those things and thought I meant them too – until I went to rehab and had to look myself in the damn mirror with a clear mind. It is a sociopathic way to live – you are deliberately hurting someone that you don’t even know when a FWB situation would fit all of the things that you say you want. Side bitch is the laziest way to get the cheapest emotional fulfillment. Panhandling for plonk, if you will. “He chooses me when he should choose you” is such an empty, horrible, shallow victory. If you’ve got a soul, some day you’ll feel awful about this.
My big disaffiliated and my big-big called me a mistake. I get all sad when I read the stories about big-little adoration.
I did this once except for the plug part. And it was red wine.
I’ve been sober for a couple years and this is one of the few times that I wish I still drank.
I have really small feet and can buy kids shoes – they’re way cheaper and frequently involve sparkles. The rest of this? I wish.
My best friend and I both joined our sorority in winter of junior year because we were tranfers. It was good and bad: it was smaller and we met the girls in a more relaxed atmosphere, which was good, but we missed out on meeting the other sororities because ours put a good effort to woo us. Greek life is small at my school so nearly everyone had open winter which leads to the bad: our pledge class included a girl who desperately wanted the hottie/Stepford sorority but they’d turned down her suicide bids twice before and she was wised up enough to know that her only possible way into top – tier was winter open. There was no fair way to turn her (or me or my bf) down. If I’d have been a freshman, I would have chosen differently because I would have gone through a true recruitment.
What would count as a fat bottomed girl? Is it strictly an ass thing or is the entire trunk taken into consideration? I think you’re being too hard on yourself.
Number 1 is true in Canada…
Hahaha, totally!
I ended up having a long-term…thing with the Older Brother. And he was way older. Like, 17 years older. That could have been something. 🙁
Second semester recruitment is a nightmare at my chapter. We had one girl who had gone through recruitment twice trying to get into my sorority and who was dropped both times because she completely didn’t fit. Come spring recruitment the second year – there she is at the front door and because we needed numbers and there was no real reason to turn her away, she was in. Ugh.
I had a best friend breakup (with one of my sorority sisters, actually) and it was the worst experience of my life. I was at a REALLY low point in my life and she threw me away because she said she wanted a leadership position in our sorority and I made her look bad. I can look back now and see that we were really just two lonely people who had nothing in common but it still hurt. Just tossed away like a piece of garbage…
I said all of those things and thought I meant them too – until I went to rehab and had to look myself in the damn mirror with a clear mind. It is a sociopathic way to live – you are deliberately hurting someone that you don’t even know when a FWB situation would fit all of the things that you say you want. Side bitch is the laziest way to get the cheapest emotional fulfillment. Panhandling for plonk, if you will. “He chooses me when he should choose you” is such an empty, horrible, shallow victory. If you’ve got a soul, some day you’ll feel awful about this.