My boyfriend isn’t bad looking at all, but he’s not Zach Efron either and I agree with his article 100%!!! I’d much rather be with someone who has a great personality and makes me comfortable being myself than to be with someone hot but not loyal or someone that I can’t be myself around!
The option y’all interpreted as uninformed seemed like it was intended to mean that you don’t vote for a specific party, you evaluate each election based on the candidates running at the time. And there’s absolutely nothing wrong with being a conservative (or liberal)! The only one of those options that is bad is the one about blindly following your parents views.
If you think you’re better than he is, or have more potential than him, get off your high horse and learn some humility. I hope he has a very successful happy future, and you’re burned out and single when you’re 35.
A girl in my PC got engaged sophomore year (lolz) and basically dropped off the face of the earth. She still gets decent grades but she spends all her free time with her fiancé. If you’re going to get engaged in college, at least wait until senior year so you can enjoy the college experience. Also if you’re in a serious relationship, it’s a great opportunity to learn how to balance a relationship with school (which is the equivalent of a job someday) and a social life which will keep you sane. If you can’t balance all your commitments yet, you’re not ready to be married.
I’d like to think the point of this article is that it’s important to develop good social skills/knowledge of how to behave in different situations without embarrassing yourself. Not everyone has those skills naturally, but anyone can develop them and they are really helpful in life. Additionally I think it’s a great point that if you don’t like something about yourself, you can work to change it. However, if that honestly was the point of this article, the author did a TERRIBLE job of articulating that point. TSM is supposed to be satire, but this article took it too far and just sounds bitchy. There isn’t just one right personality type, and individualism is an awesome thing! Being quirky/silly does not mean you have poor social skills at all. In fact, those people are some of the most fun people to be around!
College is already a time where students struggle with mental health issues. The fear of not being able to confide in someone about being sexually assaulted would be extremely detrimental to many people. Instead of being able tell a trusted adult, girls (or guys) who aren’t sure they want to report it will just keep it to themselves and not get the help they need to get past it, leading to increased depression/anxiety etc… While we all think people who commit sexual crimes deserve to be punished, some victims do not want to be public about what happened to them or would be uncomfortable testifying in court.
“Here’s a tip: if you consider deleting messages and it has nothing to do with your significant other’s surprise birthday party, you’ve entered the realm of almost cheating”
^^^^^ this 1000% if you feel guilt or the need to hide something from your SO, you shouldn’t be doing it. Plain and simple it shouldn’t be hard to be a decent human being if you care about him at all.
Not a fan of tattoos personally – mostly because they won’t look good in 20 years and because too many people don’t know when to stop getting them (your arm is not a coloring book). But if anyone wants to get a tattoo, the best places are body parts that can be easily covered up for work.
I don’t admire the plastic surgery or her life goals, but I do have to give her a little credit for pursuing what she thinks is important. If she honestly believes that looking good -however she defines it – is the most important part of her life and something she values highly, then she should do everything she can to make herself look good. It’s not about the results, it’s about her acting on her values and it’s not hurting anyone else.
Porn allows them to attack capitalism??? Wtf. Somehow I doubt girls who do porn understand anything about capitalism or even basic economics. And sure, attack the patriarchy all you want with a 40 year old mans dick down your throat. Get real.
Always send a thank you letter following an interview, but you don’t always have to do both an email and a handwritten one. The rule I’ve always heard is choose which one to do based on the company and the interviewer. If you have an interview with a young recruiter for a corporate office, just an email is perfectly fine. If your interviewer is older or the office is smaller, send a handwritten note with 24-48 hours of the interview, along with a short follow up thank you email.
This article is 100% how to determine if you’re not mature enough/ready for a relationship lmao
My boyfriend isn’t bad looking at all, but he’s not Zach Efron either and I agree with his article 100%!!! I’d much rather be with someone who has a great personality and makes me comfortable being myself than to be with someone hot but not loyal or someone that I can’t be myself around!
With tradition and values come rules unfortunately. But I’ll take the rules any day to have an awesome sisterhood based on tradition and class!
The option y’all interpreted as uninformed seemed like it was intended to mean that you don’t vote for a specific party, you evaluate each election based on the candidates running at the time. And there’s absolutely nothing wrong with being a conservative (or liberal)! The only one of those options that is bad is the one about blindly following your parents views.
If you think you’re better than he is, or have more potential than him, get off your high horse and learn some humility. I hope he has a very successful happy future, and you’re burned out and single when you’re 35.
Still don’t understand why people are so obsessed with this family…
A girl in my PC got engaged sophomore year (lolz) and basically dropped off the face of the earth. She still gets decent grades but she spends all her free time with her fiancé. If you’re going to get engaged in college, at least wait until senior year so you can enjoy the college experience. Also if you’re in a serious relationship, it’s a great opportunity to learn how to balance a relationship with school (which is the equivalent of a job someday) and a social life which will keep you sane. If you can’t balance all your commitments yet, you’re not ready to be married.
I’d like to think the point of this article is that it’s important to develop good social skills/knowledge of how to behave in different situations without embarrassing yourself. Not everyone has those skills naturally, but anyone can develop them and they are really helpful in life. Additionally I think it’s a great point that if you don’t like something about yourself, you can work to change it. However, if that honestly was the point of this article, the author did a TERRIBLE job of articulating that point. TSM is supposed to be satire, but this article took it too far and just sounds bitchy. There isn’t just one right personality type, and individualism is an awesome thing! Being quirky/silly does not mean you have poor social skills at all. In fact, those people are some of the most fun people to be around!
College is already a time where students struggle with mental health issues. The fear of not being able to confide in someone about being sexually assaulted would be extremely detrimental to many people. Instead of being able tell a trusted adult, girls (or guys) who aren’t sure they want to report it will just keep it to themselves and not get the help they need to get past it, leading to increased depression/anxiety etc… While we all think people who commit sexual crimes deserve to be punished, some victims do not want to be public about what happened to them or would be uncomfortable testifying in court.
Sure, but that doesn’t mean we have to enjoy listening to them speak for an hour at chapter
Wtf did I just listen to…? Someone please say this is a joke
I can’t stand my hair being tangled but other than that, this is so spot on
“Here’s a tip: if you consider deleting messages and it has nothing to do with your significant other’s surprise birthday party, you’ve entered the realm of almost cheating”
^^^^^ this 1000% if you feel guilt or the need to hide something from your SO, you shouldn’t be doing it. Plain and simple it shouldn’t be hard to be a decent human being if you care about him at all.
Ugh I need my boyfriend to see this
Not a fan of tattoos personally – mostly because they won’t look good in 20 years and because too many people don’t know when to stop getting them (your arm is not a coloring book). But if anyone wants to get a tattoo, the best places are body parts that can be easily covered up for work.
I don’t admire the plastic surgery or her life goals, but I do have to give her a little credit for pursuing what she thinks is important. If she honestly believes that looking good -however she defines it – is the most important part of her life and something she values highly, then she should do everything she can to make herself look good. It’s not about the results, it’s about her acting on her values and it’s not hurting anyone else.
You can certainly wear whatever you want. It just might not look very good
I focused on women because that’s who is primarily on this app, but porn guys are just as bad
Porn allows them to attack capitalism??? Wtf. Somehow I doubt girls who do porn understand anything about capitalism or even basic economics. And sure, attack the patriarchy all you want with a 40 year old mans dick down your throat. Get real.
Always send a thank you letter following an interview, but you don’t always have to do both an email and a handwritten one. The rule I’ve always heard is choose which one to do based on the company and the interviewer. If you have an interview with a young recruiter for a corporate office, just an email is perfectly fine. If your interviewer is older or the office is smaller, send a handwritten note with 24-48 hours of the interview, along with a short follow up thank you email.