I’m an AOII and our hand sign was super similar to that one and they made us stop doing it, too. Now we have to do a heart with our pointer fingers up…whatever.
As someone that’s been cheated on, this is kind of hurtful/stupid. Sure a guy can have higher testosterone but this whole “hormones is the reason he’s like this” thing is utter bullshit. Guys aren’t these incapable horny fuckers who can’t control themselves. They can. It’s like a woman PMSing being told they “can’t help” they ate a gallon of ice cream. You can resist. You can be faithful to a woman and use that testosterone to be a man to her, not a cheater. We have GOT to stop with this “guys can’t help it” mentality which is the same reason girls can’t wear shorts and tank tops to school because guys just “can’t help” how distracting it is. It’s bullshit and everyone knows it and the more we let these guys off the hook, the more they’ll do it. He didn’t cheat because he had too much testosterone; he cheated because he’s a heartless asshole.
Why is it bad to be confident in how you look and to think you’re pretty, though? Society nowadays is always telling girls and women to “love the way you look! Be confident, be you!” and all of that stuff, but the second a woman feels good about herself and her appearance she’s suddenly a narcissist. Whatever.
I commented on this months and months ago and just came across this article again and it hits home even more. Since I commented, there have been multiple times where I’ve felt this way. There’s one person in particular. I got completely and totally blackout drunk one night. I saw him (because I’ve known him for a while), went to go talk to him, and that’s the last thing I remembered until the next thing I know I remember us having sex. I had to ask him recently what even happened that night because I have no recollection of how that even happened. All I know is that I bawled my eyes out for the next hour or so. Recently, he saw my friend and I sitting at the bar and bought us probably $100 worth of shots and drinks, and when I asked him later if he did it on purpose he responded with “kinda”. I ended up feeling kind of obligated to sleep with him, and why not right? I had before whether I remembered it or not, might as well make this time count and he had spent so much money on us, so I did. I’m not blaming him for anything. He’s a good person, a sweet person and I always have good conversations with him. But I definitely think sobriety when it comes to sex is a big factor about what you’re saying, too. The first time I have ever had sex with ANYBODY that I’ve been with, ever, my first time with them was not sober. There are people that it ended up being great and we had a great relationship come from that, but there are also times I’m filled with disgust and regret afterwards, sometimes during. It’s sad girls feel obligated to please a guy just because they don’t want to be a bitch, which they wouldn’t be. Thank you again for sharing your story Veronica…it’s good to know us girls aren’t all alone. <3
I think it depends on the person. I used to HATE making out. I thought it was disgusting. I would always skip that step. But then when I started dating my ex, I started to really like it. Now I realize some people I love doing it with and other people it just grosses me out. I guess it depends on your feelings for that person a lot of the time.
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So 20 actual things and 12 comments to them.
I’m an AOII and our hand sign was super similar to that one and they made us stop doing it, too. Now we have to do a heart with our pointer fingers up…whatever.
He has to be a virgin. He just has to be.
I’ve been with more than 1 guy who finishes within 5 minutes in the morning. Every single time.
As someone that’s been cheated on, this is kind of hurtful/stupid. Sure a guy can have higher testosterone but this whole “hormones is the reason he’s like this” thing is utter bullshit. Guys aren’t these incapable horny fuckers who can’t control themselves. They can. It’s like a woman PMSing being told they “can’t help” they ate a gallon of ice cream. You can resist. You can be faithful to a woman and use that testosterone to be a man to her, not a cheater. We have GOT to stop with this “guys can’t help it” mentality which is the same reason girls can’t wear shorts and tank tops to school because guys just “can’t help” how distracting it is. It’s bullshit and everyone knows it and the more we let these guys off the hook, the more they’ll do it. He didn’t cheat because he had too much testosterone; he cheated because he’s a heartless asshole.
Love this!
Why is it bad to be confident in how you look and to think you’re pretty, though? Society nowadays is always telling girls and women to “love the way you look! Be confident, be you!” and all of that stuff, but the second a woman feels good about herself and her appearance she’s suddenly a narcissist. Whatever.
7 was exactly what I was thinking about
Love how these were actual all separate reasons and not most of them just replies to reasons.
I always LOVE your personal articles. Thank you for this <3
Disgusting. How on earth could anyone with a heart be able to do that.
ALAM!
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I commented on this months and months ago and just came across this article again and it hits home even more. Since I commented, there have been multiple times where I’ve felt this way. There’s one person in particular. I got completely and totally blackout drunk one night. I saw him (because I’ve known him for a while), went to go talk to him, and that’s the last thing I remembered until the next thing I know I remember us having sex. I had to ask him recently what even happened that night because I have no recollection of how that even happened. All I know is that I bawled my eyes out for the next hour or so. Recently, he saw my friend and I sitting at the bar and bought us probably $100 worth of shots and drinks, and when I asked him later if he did it on purpose he responded with “kinda”. I ended up feeling kind of obligated to sleep with him, and why not right? I had before whether I remembered it or not, might as well make this time count and he had spent so much money on us, so I did. I’m not blaming him for anything. He’s a good person, a sweet person and I always have good conversations with him. But I definitely think sobriety when it comes to sex is a big factor about what you’re saying, too. The first time I have ever had sex with ANYBODY that I’ve been with, ever, my first time with them was not sober. There are people that it ended up being great and we had a great relationship come from that, but there are also times I’m filled with disgust and regret afterwards, sometimes during. It’s sad girls feel obligated to please a guy just because they don’t want to be a bitch, which they wouldn’t be. Thank you again for sharing your story Veronica…it’s good to know us girls aren’t all alone. <3
What a time to be alive
I think it depends on the person. I used to HATE making out. I thought it was disgusting. I would always skip that step. But then when I started dating my ex, I started to really like it. Now I realize some people I love doing it with and other people it just grosses me out. I guess it depends on your feelings for that person a lot of the time.
You literally had one job, Amazon.
“I didn’t want to talk to you at first because you’re like super intimidating” has also been said at least 50 times a semester since I started college
ALAM! <3