That would be ideal if most sex occurred in negotiated contract form. Unfortunately, most sex occurs in the heat of the moment. At that point, whose responsibility is it to step forward and ask? Do we automatically assume it’s the man’s responsibility? Is that fair? Especially in a “I kinda want to but I kinda don’t” situation? It’s more realistic for the hesitant party to just say, “No,” and the other party respect their request.
Based solely on this column and not on experiences others may have had–if you’re having an internal conflict, take the safe route and tell us no. Maybe = no. From reading this I can tell it’s not as easy as it sounds, but you have to. After a night of flirting, going back to someone’s place, & making out, how am I supposed to know that you feel different than the signals I’ve gotten if you don’t tell me? I certainly don’t want to take advantage of anyone, and it’s unfair to call a guy a rapist or a “rape-ish-ist” if he has no idea where you’re drawing the line. I felt the need to say something because your lack of communication can affect a guy who has no intention of wrongdoing.
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That would be ideal if most sex occurred in negotiated contract form. Unfortunately, most sex occurs in the heat of the moment. At that point, whose responsibility is it to step forward and ask? Do we automatically assume it’s the man’s responsibility? Is that fair? Especially in a “I kinda want to but I kinda don’t” situation? It’s more realistic for the hesitant party to just say, “No,” and the other party respect their request.
Based solely on this column and not on experiences others may have had–if you’re having an internal conflict, take the safe route and tell us no. Maybe = no. From reading this I can tell it’s not as easy as it sounds, but you have to. After a night of flirting, going back to someone’s place, & making out, how am I supposed to know that you feel different than the signals I’ve gotten if you don’t tell me? I certainly don’t want to take advantage of anyone, and it’s unfair to call a guy a rapist or a “rape-ish-ist” if he has no idea where you’re drawing the line. I felt the need to say something because your lack of communication can affect a guy who has no intention of wrongdoing.
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