Going to defend the writer on this one- you CAN have a fwb who is your friend and that your compatible with- it’s just a lot harder than with someone you only have lust for. You just have to keep reminding yourself why you don’t want a relationship and be able to check up on yourself every so often with a, “Are my feelings still in check? Has this gone too far? Do I want to continue as is?” To self regulate and keep your fwb updated too. I just think most of us here aren’t capable of said above and are also too crazy to deal with the jealousy/non monogamy, which makes having someone you lust over much easier… But if you can’t handle the friend fwb, in the long run you probably aren’t going to be able to handle the lust fwb either. Lap me if you want but that’s the truth.
And I get that the article is to empower foreplay more.. My post was suppose to be empowering as well and not like in opposite of the article.. Should have read my comment before posting lol
Going to have be the ‘crazy feminist’ here and comment in opposition, all women (do) should love sex. Sex should always be mutually beneficial and continuously pleasurable for both parties… The idea that someone is just planning outfits in your head or singing songs during sex is really sad and minimizing to women. Also the ‘why then’ questions are implying that women don’t sex for pleasure, which is also a dangerous implication. Ladies be empowered to be in control of your sex life and never feel ashamed of afraid to ask for what you want/like in bed. Regardless of what society tells, sex isn’t just a man thing. And if you don’t want to have sex, that’s fine too! There should never be a moment during sex where your ‘day dreaming’ of something else.
The idea of saying a “simple no” to get out of this situation sounds all nice and dandy on paper but the fact that it has happened to almost every single girl out there means that there is a bigger issue going on here other than just some girls need to speak up
I see exactly where you are coming from and agree 100%, I’m surprised I’m the minority here.
Going to defend the writer on this one- you CAN have a fwb who is your friend and that your compatible with- it’s just a lot harder than with someone you only have lust for. You just have to keep reminding yourself why you don’t want a relationship and be able to check up on yourself every so often with a, “Are my feelings still in check? Has this gone too far? Do I want to continue as is?” To self regulate and keep your fwb updated too. I just think most of us here aren’t capable of said above and are also too crazy to deal with the jealousy/non monogamy, which makes having someone you lust over much easier… But if you can’t handle the friend fwb, in the long run you probably aren’t going to be able to handle the lust fwb either. Lap me if you want but that’s the truth.
Wasn’t there another article like this already recently? And we determined it wasn’t really revenge… But at least the other one was a good read
Thank you for writing this!
Is it just me or is it fucked up that her boyfriend still wanted to do anal after she was crying not too
The negative comments are just coming from people who are insecure/jealous
This one went right over your head, didn’t it honey
And I get that the article is to empower foreplay more.. My post was suppose to be empowering as well and not like in opposite of the article.. Should have read my comment before posting lol
Going to have be the ‘crazy feminist’ here and comment in opposition, all women (do) should love sex. Sex should always be mutually beneficial and continuously pleasurable for both parties… The idea that someone is just planning outfits in your head or singing songs during sex is really sad and minimizing to women. Also the ‘why then’ questions are implying that women don’t sex for pleasure, which is also a dangerous implication. Ladies be empowered to be in control of your sex life and never feel ashamed of afraid to ask for what you want/like in bed. Regardless of what society tells, sex isn’t just a man thing. And if you don’t want to have sex, that’s fine too! There should never be a moment during sex where your ‘day dreaming’ of something else.
yaaassssss
This is everything
Prob likes missionary
Can I like this a million more times!!
Not really sure how this was revenge.. But love the story regardless
Iggy in no way is celebrated more than Nicki…
Wow tuco you actually said something meaningful for once
As if either of you have actually spent any money on a ring before
Yeah because sexual child abuse is clearly something to joke about…..
That’s disgusting. Don’t be cheap and throw that shit away and buy new ones.
The idea of saying a “simple no” to get out of this situation sounds all nice and dandy on paper but the fact that it has happened to almost every single girl out there means that there is a bigger issue going on here other than just some girls need to speak up